You waited for a while before you actually slept with your partner. You stayed patient. You didn’t give yourself right away. Of course, you were attracted to him. But you didn’t give in to temptations. You managed to resist and you made him wait a while. You really wanted to get to know him first and you wanted him to get to know you as well. You wanted to build trust in your relationship. And that’s a good thing, right?
Well, not exactly. After you guys slept with one another for the first time, you noticed that he started becoming more distant to you. You noticed that he was pulling away a little bit. Maybe he might have even vanished from your life completely. And now you’re feeling lost. You’re upset. You don’t know what to do or why things turned out the way that they did. You don’t know what you could have done wrong.
IF you are like the vast majority of women in this world, then you would probably be confused about everything that has taken place. You don’t know why it happened to you and you don’t know what you can do to prevent this kind of thing from ever happening again. You are really hurt and you are going through a lot of pain. You start to build walls around yourself so that you can protect your heart. You don’t want to be opening yourself up to that kind of pain anymore. You want to protect yourself.
But you don’t typically allow yourself to be that kind of woman. You know that love is always going to require courage. You know that love is always going to be worth the risk. But still, the threat remains. And that’s what this article is for. It aims to give you a better perspective on the matter so that you aren’t going to be kept in the dark.
This article is going to give you all of the answers that you need. The better understanding you have o the situation, then the better you will be able to handle it.
1. All he really wanted was just to be physical after all.
Some men just really want the fun and none of the other aspects of a relationship. And when you give them what they want, they just run off because they want nothing else.
2. His lust for you blinded him to the parts that he didn’t like.
He has really wanted to be physical with you for the longest time now. But his lust for you was blinding him to parts of you that he wouldn’t like. And being physical with him somehow opened his eyes.
3. You just don’t have the chemistry that he was looking for.
It may be unfortunate but it happens. You aren’t always going to be a perfect match in the sack.
4. He’s afraid of how fast things might be going.
Maybe even though you’ve waited for quite a while, he still things as going really fast and it concerns him.
FINAL THOUGHTS
You have to know this. You have power over men. And a lot of that power stems from your energy. There are plenty of men who will do whatever it takes to be with you. And that is the power that you can’t just misuse. If you are using intimacy as some kind of tool to lure him into a relationship with you, then you should expect him to act differently once you finally give it to him. Being intimate in a relationship is healthy and important, yes. However, it shouldn’t be what you are building your entire relationship on. Men understand that you have this power over them. And they will be willing participants so as long as you give them what they want.
You just have to make sure that you know what YOU want from relationships and from love. Always be upfront about your needs and expectations – and make sure that he is being honest in the same way. That’s the only way that the two of you are going to be on the same page. Tell him that you want something more than just physical attraction – and if he doesn’t feel the same way, then you need to break yourself off from him right away.
You know what you want even if you have to teach your partner it can work out wonderful but don’t work your ass off and keep not getting anywhere learn sooner than later do you know what I mean do unto each other please one another. If not it will never work like I said don’t work your but off.
We woman never learn.It is what it is.
You have no power over men first of all, no matured man will be fooled over your weak illusion of yourself holding control over men. Lust, desire of sexual intimacy is a part of a relationship which you don’t sell btw, if you’re then you’re a hoe.
Men have things they want in their lives, if the woman that they’re with don’t satisfy their needs, it is pretty likely that the man will walk away from her, regardless of being in bed together or not. In the end every man needs a wife who’s capable of taking care of his family not a rattling feminist bitch.
Did everyone forget something important there’s a really old saying and it’s there for a good reason. The old saying is you can’t live with them and you can’t live without them. know that this saying doesn’t necessarily mean no commitment or anything of the sort it’s important to keep that in mind sometimes people get along and last a lifetime longer together living apart from each other while still being together faithfully and get along alot better there’s many reasons why that can be but it’s important not to jump to conclusions when it comes to it you never know unless you properly communicate and being very specific instead of vague. It can be a very healthy way of going about things it just depends on what situations call for or to be tried never hurts right.
You kìlled it man
You said it all man 👍🏾
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Its crazy but i was dump after our intimacy. I cant believe it happend! I was so shocked for 3 days!😔😔
Nathan got it. Jingo, nah, in the real world feminist really what’s that, if we are females and it just being feminine is just been a woman. When a men call a woman feminist because her ideals don’t go based on traditional way woman should react. I believed in the foundation of a family, but to get to that real man you have to go through different hiring process, that makes us a hoe, while men stay so inmature through their adulthood, letting us woman race the new generation by ourselves, what do you expect, it is just a cycle, yes we want a man to raise our kids, protect them, teach them to be great men, we want those men to raise their voices to show leadership, stop being mommies boys, and be so emotional, that is for us women to be, I raised my three young men, and I chased their father to be in their lives, a real man is always needed as long he knows where his heart is , and a woman to be his second half!