Are you dating a man who is making you feel uncomfortable, but you’re not sure why? It’s important to recognize signs of toxic behavior early to avoid getting hurt. Here are five common signs that a man might not be a good partner and should be avoided.
1. He Plays Mind Games
One big warning sign is when a man uses tricky mind games to make you feel off-balance. For instance, he might plan a date and then cancel at the last minute to make you anxious and want him more, or he might stop being affectionate unless you do what he wants. These manipulation tricks are very harmful.
Men who treat dating like a game often have deep insecurities and use these tricks because they’re scared you might lose interest or think they’re not good enough. If you often feel confused, anxious, or uneasy in the relationship, be cautious. Mind games suggest he might not be right for a real and healthy connection.
2. He Blames Everyone Else
Another sign of a toxic person is when they always blame others for everything. If you ask about their past relationships, do they say all their exes were “crazy” or dishonest? Do they act like they’re always the victim and never admit they did anything wrong?
Men who constantly blame others usually lack self-awareness. They don’t see their part in why relationships or life isn’t going well. This immaturity makes it hard to have a healthy relationship. Mature men take responsibility for their mistakes.
3. He’s Excessively Distrustful
Watch out for guys who always think you’re doing something wrong and don’t trust you unless you prove you’re innocent. They might always believe you’re cheating or lying and want to check your phone or accounts to make sure you’re loyal. While some trust issues come from bad experiences, too much distrust is different.
Controlling partners use suspicion to keep you away from others and control you, not to protect themselves. You can’t change these guys or make them believe you’re trustworthy because they doubt you because of their own issues, not because of what you do. Don’t waste your time trying to make them trust you if they’re always thinking the worst about you.
4. He’s a Control Freak
Is he always trying to control everything in your life, wanting to know everything you do, and getting upset if you don’t respond to his messages right away? Does he try to keep you away from your family and friends? These are signs of someone who wants to control you.
Control freaks do this because they feel scared inside, and they think controlling you will make them feel safe and powerful. But in reality, they don’t really have control over their own lives. Avoid men like this, as controlling behavior only gets worse over time.
5. He Only Takes, Never Gives
If your partner only seems interested in what they can get from the relationship, lacks interest in your life unless it serves them, and constantly needs validation, praise, sex, or money from you, it’s a sign of a self-absorbed narcissist. Healthy relationships involve a balance of giving and receiving, but if it’s all about them and nothing about you, they’re using you.
Don’t keep giving endlessly to someone who won’t invest in you. While it’s normal to make compromises in relationships, you deserve reciprocity. If they won’t make an effort, it’s better to leave and focus on taking care of yourself.
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