Gemini people (born between May 21 and June 20) are fun-loving people. Since Gemini is an air sign, quite symbolically, they happen to be light-natured and tend to find the meaning of life in small things. It is very easy to figure out how to love them if you want to love them because you have fallen for their social butterfly kind of nature. They are very easy people with, of course, a lot of self-respect and one quick look at this five-step guide to love a Gemini will teach you enough to keep them hooked.
1. Reassure Them:
When in love, Gemini people can be nervous, indecisive and full of doubts. In order to show them that you understand their condition and their disposition for that matter, you should reassure them. You need to remind them time and again that you are there for them no matter what and you actually love them. They are not exactly self-doubting people but because of being always in need of reassurance, they will constantly ask themselves if you are really in love with them.
To counter the nervousness, they might say something stupid or inappropriate which they expect you to take lightly and ignore. They realize later the wrong things they say and the only way for you to look over those things is to understand the fact that they don’t always mean everything they say. Reassure them that it is okay to have doubts and you love them still; that is all a Gemini needs.
2. Think Outside The Box:
Gemini men and women are imaginative and creative people who love to do something that nobody has ever done or usually does. They love to think out of the box to make everything ten times more interesting. To love them better, take new tricks and ideas in the bedroom. They are creative; fantasies and role-plays are their kinds of things so invest some time and energy there. Whether it is about your sex life or interests in general, thinking out of the box will always help you with your way to their heart. They are not exactly too materialistic, therefore expensive presents won’t impress them as much as those that you have put your thoughts and love it. Buy them what means a lot to them and you will be loved forever.
In a nutshell, don’t just think out of the box but leave the box behind when with a Gemini.
3. Know The Child In Them:
Their playful nature might be the reason you fell in love with them in the first place so it is necessary that you complement that nature by knowing fully and indulging with their inner child. They don’t like to take life too seriously so learn to live in the moment with them and laugh it off. Whenever you feel like talking about something serious, give them hints that it’s a mature time and they will understand that it is, indeed, something very serious. They may deal with matters like children but when life requires them to take it like a pro, they do it like a pro.
Anything intense freaks them out. You will be ruining everything if you ever make a Gemini feel that their fun-loving nature is something you don’t appreciate or comes in your way of communicating with them. Stay away if you cannot live with that because they cannot stop being who they are.
4. Keep Talking:
They are totally not the kind of people who keep things in their hearts only to burst out at some point, no. Gemini people are those who like to communicate then and there; nothing that they think stays in their mind for a long time. They do know the difference between hurtful and moderate comments but when it comes to personal feelings or opinions, they will talk and so should you if you are hoping to love them like they like to be loved.
Communicating might not sound like a very special way of loving a Gemini but that is pretty much all they expect from a loving partner; someone who would listen to them without judging them. And after listening, you precious replies and POVs will make their day. The simplest and easiest way to love a Gemini person is to make sure the communication is good.
5. Learn With Them:
Gemini people are keen students who don’t like to stop learning no matter what it is. Once they have set their heart onto learning something, they will give up only when they have mastered it. Your company in learning will only appreciate and motivate them and will bring you closer to them. Educate yourselves in order to understand them better and make them adore you. Someone who understands our hobbies and interests and makes changes in their life to join us in them often gets our heart.
So learn with a Gemini, listen to them, know their inner child, tell them you love them and be creative with them. Once you have done most or all of them, you have learnt all there is to learn about loving a Gemini.
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Does this resonate with you? Let me know in the comments down below!
My birthday is June 12 and it took me 48 years before I fell in love but everything this article states is pretty close to true unfortunately the part about doubting he loves me is pushing him away !
I’m born on june 6th and I got tears in my eyes with everything. Everything is true! Never had this before. I wish my ex had read this..
100% on point, when he is not willing to try any of these , then he’s just not loving you , time to let him go & move on!
My birthday is june 21 I was born on the cusp So should I read Gemini and cancer
Yes, you will have traits of both signs!
Excellent…. Really true
This is so scarily accurate… wow I am impressed. Had my girl/ ex or whatever she is now taken the time to do this… she would be as close to heaven in the physical form as she could be right now.
my boyfriend’s a gemini and this is all pretty accurate. Especially the child in him- sometimes he’ll make childish jokes that me, as a Taurus, takes way too seriously and I need to work on that cuz I know he doesn’t mean those jokes in a harmful way, it’s only to poke at me (and he likes getting a cute reaction outta me anyway) such as a huff and me crossing my arms
I’m a Gemini n yes this hits it right on the head!!! ESPECIALLY #4
I’m born in 12/8 1985 and he is born in 8/6 1989
I already tried all 5 with him but I can’t get him to open up to me emotionally in general.
He says he has commitment issues.
He says he likes me a lot.
But I want him to love me Like I love him.
I confessed my feelings but he started reeducate the idea of love in general.
Is there anything that I can do to make him open up to me? or should I just let go and move on?
Thanks for your efforts it means alot to me & all the points you have pinned are 100% accurate.
I’m a June 1 gemini, yes this post is very accurate. I will be 47 years old so the only thing that has changed over the years is the doubting if you love me. I’m at the point in my life if you don’t show and prove, I’m leaving and not sticking around to de insecure about it lol. But people think we are difficult but really we are really simple. You hit the nail on the head with this one.
I am a Gemini. And this is definitely me. You are spot on.
I’m a Gemini and my husband is a Virgo and we’re married for 54 years
That’s great. I’m a Gemini and my ex was a Virgo but I read somewhere that a Virgo/Gemini relationship is either one of love or hate, no inbetween. My mum and my best friend are both Virgo’s and I love them to bits. I’m so pleased to read that you and your Virgo have been together for so long, my Virgo ex just didn’t get me at all. Wishing you both many more happy years together 🙏
I’m a 100% gemini with a true leo to the fullest… is the relationship gona truly be as hard as they say it will be?? Would love to know what u think!