There is no sure short way to success in a relationship. There is no E=mc2 No one can exactly tell you what makes a relationship work and what doesn’t but there are a few things that will always make a relationship better. There are a few things all happy couples abide by and that’s what this article will help you understand.
So, what actually makes couples happy? We don’t need gems, bling, cash, and all other worldly valuables to stay content. There are these little things we do in life everyday that are capable of making us satisfied and utterly happy with each other.В Everyone dreams of building a fairytale, here are these things that will help you get those must ingredients for your perfect relationship.
1. Communication
Don’t be scared to open your hearts out to each other. You are not only partners in your daily routines, in the plans you make, in the friends you have but you both are equal partners of what you two think. It’s all right to step out of your comfort zone once in a while and show the rawness of your soul to your partner. Let them truly love you and your soul.
Couples who have deep conversations are far more likely to be happy than couples who always keep it light and breezy, according to a 2010 study in the journal “Psychological Science”.В Strike a conversation about the things you like or don’t, stay positive though. It’s all right to receive and give your feedback in a healthy and constructive way so you both can work on this bond together. – Continue reading on next page
2. Flirt
No matter how long you’ve been together, your partner will probably love being reminded about why you find him or her so attractive in the first place. Be appreciative, tell them how they charm you. It is always good to appreciate each other even if you are doing something for a millionth time. Nobody dislikes being appreciated also you can avoid the most common complain most couples have with each other, that is, they have lost the charm and now feel under-appreciated.’
Also, don’t stop giving your partner something to be charmed with and flirt about. It’s always good to be intimate and try to bring some spice and spark in your lives.
3. Spend time together
Happy couples keep their priorities straight and they will always stay consistent. A relationship does not require efforts only initially. It is a constant battle of trying and making efforts. Happy couples enjoy their company and enjoy making efforts because making an effort means bringing smile to their loved one. So if you really love them, stay constant, that’s the thing that will keep you both happy and together.В – Continue reading on next page
4. Forgive
I have seen a lot of couples holding grudges and waiting to get back on their partners for something they did. Revenge is something that shouldn’t exist between couples or anyone for that matter. Forgive and forget, hold on to these three words. Nothing is bigger than your relationship, so let go of small things and move on.
5. Respect
I am a firm believer of the fact that you can’t really love someone if you do not respect them. Build respect for each other, always draw a line for yourself and let your partner draw their’s. Do not cross them. It is essential that you are familiar with each other’s no-go areas. Respect them for how they are, what they want and how they want to be.
Remember respect given is respect earned. So slowly build your way to that.
These things may not happen overnight, in fact, it might take a lot of time. Do not lose hope or give up, the best things in life come to those who wait. Don’t stop trying and even if you are happy together and following all these things then stay consistent. Keep going!
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What are your own happy habits that you share with your partner? Share yours with me in the comments below. And as always, stay blessed and keep the love alive!
