He’s a loyal man.
Everywhere we turn, we are bombarded by stories of infidelity, unfaithfulness, disloyalty, and commitment issues. It’s as if a lot of the relationships that we’re exposed to are plagued with issues of cheating, whether physically or emotionally. So it’s perfectly acceptable for a lot of people in relationships to feel skeptical about the loyalty of their partners. A lot of individuals in love are going to suspect their partners of cheating even when there’s no reason to. That’s just how our minds have been conditioned to think because of the media and everything else that we’re exposed to.
While it can be very stressful carrying that kind of negative energy around in a relationship, you shouldn’t have to worry about your partner’s loyalty too much. Remember that while there are many reasons for you to cheat on one another, there are just as many convincing reasons for you to actually commit to each other. You just need to remind yourself of these reasons and all of your anxieties are going to be appeased. Remember that it doesn’t make sense for you to be worrying about something that you don’t really need to be worried about.
But if you still need some convincing, then perhaps you should refresh yourself on why it is highly likely that your guy is as loyal as a pet dog. He’s not cheating on you and he probably never will because of these specific reasons:
1. He is a morally upright and principled person.
Kudos to you if you’ve managed to land yourself a morally upright and standup guy. It’s rare to find principled men in this world who never compromise their moral compass. They are the men who believe in doing the right thing at all times regardless if it’s inconvenient to them or not. This is why you can always trust him to never cheat on you.
He believes that the act of cheating is categorically wrong in itself and he would never subject himself to such moral impurity. He doesn’t care about how either of you are going to feel about cheating because he knows that the action in itself is unacceptable. Regardless of the consequences, he’s never going to engage in extramarital affairs because he understands that it’s just wrong.
2. He is worried about the effects that his cheating escapades would have on his children.
If you are married and you already have children, then that is another perfect reason why you shouldn’t worry about him acting unfaithful to you. A lot of men these days are just better fathers than the dads of before. They are more empathetic, sensitive, and more emotional. They are softer and they would be more mindful of how their actions or words may impact the lives of their children. That’s why the fact that you have kids can serve as an effective deterrent for your spouse to engage in extramarital affairs. He wouldn’t want his children to see their dad as a morally despicable human being who betrayed mommy.
3. He will not want to risk ending up alone without you.
If he is a codependent kind of person, then he is probably never going to cheat on you. He knows that you would have no trouble leaving him in a heartbeat if you ever found out that he was cheating on you. Sometimes, fear can also serve as a perfect deterrent for lustful male partners. He would be absolutely devastated and helpless without you, and so that’s why he would never do anything to rock the boat. He would never consent to being unfaithful if it meant he would risk losing you in the process.
4. He doesn’t want to bring another person into an already tumultuous situation.
Even if things aren’t going as nicely as you’d hope it would in your relationship, there is still a reason for you to believe that he would never cheat on you. If he were a genuinely nice guy, he wouldn’t want to bring any other people in as collateral damage to your rocky relationship. He knows that things aren’t exactly ideal for you guys right now and so he wouldn’t want to involve any unnecessary casualties should the two of you implode on yourselves. He is too kind and thoughtful of others to do so.
5. He loves you and he would never do anything to hurt you.
Lastly, and most importantly, he would never cheat on you because he loves you more than anyone on the face of this earth. For one, no other person could ever satisfy him the way that you do. And two, he would never do anything that would hurt you. He loves you too much to ever betray you or feel like you are a second-class lover. He would always make sure that you know that you are the most important person in the world to him. And he will prove that to you by actually committing to you and you alone.