Has he been indifferent?
It’s normal for people in relationships to have their fair share of faults and shortcomings. It’s totally expected for someone to have the occasional stumble. We are all only human after all and none of us are perfect. That is why patience, understanding, and compromise are absolutely essential in making a relationship work. However, the one thing that you should never be willing to compromise in the relationship is the mutual respect that the both of you have to uphold for one another. You must both always be treating each other as dignified human beings who are prone to getting hurt and offended. You must always be mindful of both your words and actions when you’re dealing with each other so as to avoid any unnecessary and toxic conflict. Remember you could be telling one another that you love each other deeply and sincerely, but if those words don’t manifest themselves into how much they show that care about your feelings, then those expressions of love mean absolutely nothing. So if your partner is saying all these sweet nothings to you and yet, treats you terribly, then he doesn’t really mean what he’s saying. He doesn’t care about what you’re feeling. There are many signs that you need to keep an eye out for to know if your man is indifferent to your feelings or not.
Remember it can be very tricky to tell. Some men are just inherently shy about their feelings and their expressions of affection. They aren’t very vocal, but they do genuinely care about your feelings. They just aren’t as expressive or as boisterous as other men are. But then, there are also a few rotten men that you should be wary of. These men are explicitly rude and they just really don’t care about whether you are happy or not. They don’t give a damn about your feelings and they frankly couldn’t care less about your mental or emotional state. Remember that a person who truly loves you and cares about how you feel would never hesitate to do anything nice for you if it meant making you a happier person overall. That’s what true love is all about. You wouldn’t have to try so hard to force a man who really loves you to be mindful of your feelings and emotions. He wouldn’t be willing to put you through that kind of stress at all.
So if you are unlucky enough to be in a relationship with someone who just doesn’t care about your emotional well-being, then you really need to start reconsidering that relationship. You need to start thinking about the possibility of breaking things off and finding someone who will actually love you the way that you deserve to be loved. Remember that you should never have to settle for someone who treats you any less than you deserve to be treated. You need to be with someone who loves you and who isn’t afraid to show his love for you.
If your partner says any of these things to you, then it is a big indication that he just doesn’t care about you the way that he should be:
1. I don’t really care if you want to sleep with other people.
You don’t want an overly jealous or restrictive boyfriend. BUT YOU SHOULD NEVER WANT TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO IS COMPLETELY ALOOF EITHER. Of course he should care about whether or not you sleep with other people.
2. You’re the one who isn’t giving me the attention and care that I need.
Whenever you accuse him of being withholding and rude to you, he is going to try to play the victim. He will try to turn the tables on you and accuse you of being the one who is inconsiderate of his feelings. You know the truth and it’s this: he’s just too selfish to even realize that you’re right.
3. It doesn’t matter that you really want to go on those corny dates; I find them extremely corny and I don’t want any part in them.
Even if your man finds the stuff that you want corny, he should still be willing to do those things with you because he supposedly loves you. The fact that he isn’t willing to do anything for you is proof that he’s only in it for himself.
4. You have really basic and dense friends.
He shouldn’t be talking about your friends in such a manner at all. He should understand that your friends mean a whole lot to you and that you get offended whenever someone attacks the group of people that you choose to surround yourself with.
5. I really don’t want to have to deal with you right now.
You aren’t worth any of his time. Even if you’re upset or downright feeling hurt. He’s not going to want to deal with your negativity because he doesn’t care about you enough to do so. He only wants you when you are acting prim and proper. He only likes you when you are at your best.
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