We often treat true love as only finding an ideal partner in love. Someone you can plan your day to day plans with or maybe have a romantic vacation with. True love is not doing the same things together. You can actually do these with your best friend or your roommate for that matter, true love is much more. True love is more about growing as a person with someone. It is about rediscovering yourself and your partner helping you with it. Same goes for you, what I mean to say is, true love is about bringing out the good in each other.
Partners act like a catalyst of change in your life. Influence of your partner is inevitable in your life, your opinions start to match even though you don’t notice it and deny it every chance you get but a popular study proves that couples start to think alike. Living together and spending most of your time together makes you experience the same things and the support you get from each other reinforces the way you think. Thus, it is more than important, it is essential to have the right kind of influence in your life.
Ever heard of the phrase ,’ you bring the best in me’. Well, it stands true. True love is all about making you and them a better person, together.
Here are the things that I learned when I found true love.
5. IT MAKES YOU A HAPPIER PERSON
You will realise, once you are in love, that you have never been this happy. When it’s just infatuation and not true love, you do feel happy but only initially, soon that happiness wears off and you are stuck there thinking what is wrong with the two of you. Let me tell you, true love is all of that happiness FOREVER. You are just happier and everything seems perfect.
4. YOU START BEING MORE POSITIVE
Colors seem brighter, and the grass looks greener. You feel like every wrong thing in your life went wrong only so you can be with this special person. I have often found myself thanking life for being harsh on me before I met my true love because if I would have been stuck there, I would have never been able to find this amazing person.В All the imperfections of life start to seem PERFECT
3. YOU BECOME PATIENT
A lot of our patience is usually taken up by our relationship if we are not having a healthy relationship. This causes us to be moody and a lot less patient in our lives with other people.
When you are in true love, your patience is not being tested to that limit so you have a lot of it left for others.
2. YOU BECOME HUMBLE
True love is surprisingly very satisfying and makes you feel content with life. When you experience such a great feeling of contentment, you realize how lucky you are and how unfortunate those people are who do not find true love in someone or something. You learn being more humble towards them and become more generous eventually. For you have what others don’t, so you give more to others as you feel you receive more than you could have ever asked for.
1. SMALL THINGS DON’T BOTHER YOU ANYMORE
When a person is content, they realize there is no point in losing something so perfect over petty issues.В Things that would bother you otherwise or in your past with your exes, they will not even matter to you anymore.
You will be shocked, I was. I was shocked to see how my thinking and acceptance of my partners seemed so right.
So you see, true love is everything you don’t and do expect. It will surprise you and will shock you to your bones. It will teach you and it will give you something to teach others. It will help you be a better person and a better partner. Seek for it, it will be worth it.В It will be worth every damn try and every bad experience in your life.
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