It’s all about the art of attraction. The more attractive you are as a lady, the more likely it is that a guy is going to be interested in you. The more attractive you are, the higher the chances that you are going to find love with another person. It’s just the way of the world. All forms of love always start with some form of mutual attraction. And the more attractive you are, the easier it will be for you to get guys to pursue you on a romantic level.
However, you have to keep in mind that being attractive isn’t just about having clear skin, blonde hair, round eyes, and a curvy figure. Attractiveness isn’t all about how you look. Physical attractiveness plays a role but it doesn’t really tell the whole story. In fact, your personality is really where a bulk of your attractiveness lies. You don’t have to be the most physically appealing girl on the block to be the most attractive. You have the power to win any guy over with a great personality; and an interesting character.
You might be led to believe that men are typically aesthetic and visual creatures; that they only respond to the things that catch their eye. But you’re wrong. Men are also emotional creatures. And yes, you can grab their attention with your good looks. But if you have a crappy personality, you aren’t going to be able to keep heir attention for too long. And you don’t want to risk having certain character traits that men find repulsive after all.
There are so many women all over the world who complain about men who only use them for their bodies; about men who play them and who discard them once they’re done. And it’s important to note that there is no excuse for this behavior. It’s always wrong for any man to be playing a girl like that. It’s wrong for any guy to be using any girl for her body. But you can’t be washing your hands clean either. You can’t be making it too easy for men to use and abuse you like that.
If you aren’t going to give a man much to work with beyond your looks, then he’s not really going to find much value in having an emotional relationship with you. You have to build a character that commands respect from all men. This will make you less susceptible as a target; and you will be protecting yourself even more from the clutches of abusive men who will only like you for your looks. If you give a man something else to love beyond how you look, then you are giving him an incentive to really take you seriously. You are virtually compelling him to work hard for you love in return because of how enchanting and attractive your personality is.
At the end of the day, looks will fade. But a great personality only gets better over time. So take a long hard look at your personality. Be honest with yourself. You might be guilty of practicing some very poor character traits; and this could be the reason why men don’t seem to be taking you seriously. If you notice that you possess a lot of the traits that are listed on here, then you shouldn’t be surprised anymore as to why men seem to be running away from you all the time. Remember that life is constant self-improvement; and you can never really grow until you know what the problem is.
1. You act too insecure.
A man can only do so much to help with your confidence and self-esteem. If you just continue to act all insecure, then he might get fed up. Insecurity can breed toxicity and negativity; and he might want to distance himself from that kind of energy.
2. You are too clingy in relationships.
No man ever wants to be with a girl who is too clingy. Just because you get into a relationship doesn’t mean that you get to latch on to him all of the time. You have to be able to give him space to be his own person if you don’t want to suffocate him.
3. You are absent-minded.
You are never in the present moment. It’s like you’re physically there but your mind is wandering way off into nowhere. Men genuinely appreciate girls who know how to appreciate the moments that they’re in.
4. You act too jealous.
A little possessiveness is fine in a relationship. But excessive jealousy can be the quickest way to drive a guy away. You should be able to trust and respect him enough to know that he isn’t doing anything that will jeopardize your relationship.
5. You are insensitive.
Men can be sensitive too. You have to stop giving into the stereotype that men are as hard as rocks; and that they’re never going to crumble emotionally. Men still have feelings. Men still get hurt. And if you continue to act like he doesn’t get hurt with the things that you say or do in the relationship, then he isn’t going to want to have anything to do with you.
