Ladies, how many of you are guilty of these?
Many of us believe that if we have been in a long relationship, then there are chances we might not make mistakes which may lead us to an unhealthy relationship. No matter what stage of life we are in, there is a strong chance that we might make mistakes which others make in a newly established relationship.
There are some common problems or relationship mistakes that women usually make which need to be avoided in order to lead a happier as well as a healthy relationship. If a woman is able to handle these problems before they even start, then the relationship would stay healthier for sure and that too for a very long time.
1. Getting jealous even at the small things
Some women have the tendency to believe that every woman who their man talks to is probably having a romantic relationship with him. There are women out there who get jealous of the tiniest bit of interaction of their man with another woman. The question is, who gets tortured due to this jealousy? And the answer is the man himself. The woman would constantly complain regarding his interaction with that other woman and would turn out to believe that her man is probably having something more than a normal conversation with the other woman.
This may not be the case most of the times, which is why sometimes it is okay to let your man have a conversation with another woman in peace. So, women if you get jealous on petty things, make sure to read our article on 7 Ways to deal with jealousy. It is not compulsory that when two people of opposite gender talk then there is this one thing between them, which would either be sexual tension or physical attraction.
2. Not considering that men need personal space as well
Men aren’t like women sometimes when they ask you to let them be then it may actually mean that they really need to be alone. It’s common with women that when they ask someone to leave them alone, deep down, they want that person to make it up to them, but that is not the case with men, therefore when your partner is angry or doesn’t want to have you around then you should give him time and let him be alone because some people tend to think better when they’re alone.
3. Not considering your well-being
Sometimes, women believe that if they are in a relationship for a very long time, then taking care of their physical appearance is not that important. It may not be the case every time unfortunately. There is nothing as pleasing as staying in your pajamas all day long, not combing your hair and not getting your nails done.
At the same time, these things do matter sometimes. If you stay in a form where it may appear that you do not take care of yourself, then there is a chance that the relationship will start to go to an unhealthy side. Women should avoid that because your partner would be happier and will cherish you more if you take care of both your physical as well as mental well-being.
4. Revolving around your partner
Many people do not like others hovering over their heads. Same is the case with some men. If a woman is too much around him, then there is a possibility that their relationship would move to an unhealthy side. Sometimes in a relationship, couples should give each other the chance of missing one another.
Making yourself available too much is not just unhealthy, but also annoying and it’s giving the other person the indication that you are available for that person a little too much. This also covers up the need of personal space because everybody needs their personal space so hovering is not a good idea.
5. Complaining too much
Nobody likes people who complain all the time. There are some things over which you just cannot do anything and these things need to be accepted as they are. Women who complain too much to their Partners usually end up in bad relationships. Even the most patient guys give up when their partner complains too much to them. Constant complaining should be avoided if a woman wants a relationship to stay healthy. This will give both the man and the woman peace of mind as well as a better life.
6. Not Appreciating his efforts
When you observe that a person is making an effort to keep you happy and keep their life balanced with you then the least that they deserve is a little bit of appreciation. Some women either consciously or subconsciously avoid appreciating others. It is not mainly their fault, there are some women who are really hard to please but at the same time there are some women who may not be as careful as they should be when it comes to appreciating others. A few words of appreciation can make someone’s day and it can make someone believe that their efforts are not going to waste and are being noticed by you. If you appreciate your partner, then it would make your partner really happy and your relationship would remain healthy.
The list of different mistakes made by women is quite long. When the relationship goes in an unhealthy direction, then it is not necessary that the mistakes are only made by the woman. Sometimes the mistakes are made by men as well, therefore if a person wants a healthy relationship then both the parties need to struggle collectively. The compromises should not always be given to one party. If there are healthier habits for relationship which you believe should be added in everyone’s life, then do feel free to share them with us. At the same time if you believe that some of those habits mentioned by us were not relevant, then please feel free to give us your feedback so that we may improve our knowledge.
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