Love can be wonderful, but it can also hurt a lot. When you notice your partner isn’t interested in you anymore, it hurts emotionally, and that emotional pain can feel like physical pain. If you see signs that your boyfriend is no longer in the relationship, it’s better to end things sooner rather than later.
Trying to make him stay when he’s not into it is hard, and if your boyfriend has lost affection, prolonging the relationship won’t turn out well. So, it’s important to learn to tell if your boyfriend is getting tired of you and consider ending things before they get messy for both of you.
Here are a few signs that you should look out for:
1. He avoids you
In a good relationship, if a man loves you, he’ll want to be with you and send you messages often, either to check on you or make you smile. If the texts suddenly stop or he starts avoiding you when he used to be eager to spend time together, it’s a sign that something’s wrong. So, don’t keep wondering if your relationship is over when your boyfriend doesn’t want to be with you anymore.
2. He puts his friends first
Another sign that a man may be done with the relationship is when he starts putting his friends or family before you when you used to be his top priority. While it’s fine for couples to spend time apart, if he’s consistently with friends more than you, it’s a warning sign. You can try suggesting to join him when he spends time with his friends or family and see how he responds. If this situation is causing you concern, discussing it with a relationship expert might be helpful.
3. He doesn’t seem to talk with you as much as he normally did
He used to really like talking to you. He would listen and care about the little things when you shared your concerns. But now, things have changed. He doesn’t pay much attention to you and hardly gives any advice to help with your problems.
4. You don’t really talk about the future anymore
You two don’t really talk about the future as a couple. Your conversations stay light, and you don’t discuss what might come next. While you’re invested in the relationship, he doesn’t seem as interested. You’re often left thinking about the future on your own, without much input from him.
5. He doesn’t make an effort to fix the problems in your relationship
Your relationship might have its flaws, and you’re probably the one who notices this the most. But you’re always ready to do your best to work on these problems and make things better. But your boyfriend just isn’t the same. He doesn’t seem interested in trying to solve the issues in your relationship anymore. If a person is truly in love, they will always be willing to fight for that love.
6. There is no more intimacy
You might notice he’s losing interest if the physical closeness between you two diminishes. Also, he’s likely not showing affection as he used to. If he’s avoiding intimate gestures, it’s a sign that his feelings are fading.
Have you noticed any of these painful signs in your own experiences? We’d love to hear from you – share your thoughts and stories in the comments below.