6 Signs Someone Is Trying To Win Your Heart

Do NOT ignore these signs!

In such a fast-paced world that we live in today, a lot of us have the tendency to overlook the things that don’t present themselves to us in a grand manner. We try to get from point A to B in such a haste pace, we end up forgetting to stop and smell the roses every once in a while. That’s the price we have to pay in the age of the information revolution.

We tend to forget that being personal and emotional are perfectly normal aspects of being human. We leave our humanity behind for the sake of technological progress. Maybe that is why it is getting harder for a lot of us to find true love. Maybe we are too caught up in our little toys and gadgets, we end up forgetting that we need other people in order to survive.

People nowadays are more ambitious than ever before. We are so caught up in our own pursuits for personal development and acclamation; and that’s okay. However, our focus can often blind us to the immaterial things in life that we also need in order to survive.

We forget that love is the foundation that binds us all as human beings. We must always make sure to never overlook love in our lives even when we’re busy in the pursuit of our dreams. Always be sure to be on the lookout for the signs of someone who is knocking on the door of your heart. Otherwise, you might end up living a life without love in a world without color.

1. This person always gives you gifts of things that you are known to like.

It could be a clothing item from your favorite fashion brand, or a book from one of your most favorite authors. This person never gives you random gifts. They are very calculated gifts that are given at the most random moments.

If this person gets you something for no reason at all on a consistent basis, then you can best bet that this person is letting you know that they are very interested in you. These gifts don’t necessarily have to be grand or expensive, they just have to be meaningful. It also lets you know that they pay attention to what you say and know about the things that you like or are interested in.

2. This person is always throwing compliments your way.

Don’t flatter yourself. We know that it can be difficult to suppress that ego when this person is constantly throwing compliments and words of affection your way, but don’t let your ego balloon to the size of an elephant. Stay grounded and humble. Know that this person is only doing this because they are trying to let you know that you are a great person and they are interested in having a relationship with you. Respond with a humble expression of gratitude, and always be courteous in your approach.

3. This person is dropping hints about their attraction to you through their body language.

Subtle caresses on the arm. Little nudges on the shoulder. Gentle strokes of the hair. These are all very subtle hints that a person is trying to get intimate with you. Body language can say a lot about a person’s true intentions, and if you pay close attention to the signs, it’s not difficult to see that a person is very interested in you.

4. This person will always make eye contact with you when you’re together.

As the clich goes, the eyes are the windows to the soul. If a person is always maintaining eye contact with you, then that is an establishment of comfort and trust. You would never look someone in the eye for prolonged periods of time if you didn’t trust them. When a person is always looking you straight in the eye, then that person is trying to figure you out more; looking deep into your soul and learning more about the things that you love and are attracted to.

5. This person takes a special interest in your hobbies and passions.

Whenever you express an interest or love for someone, you always make an effort to be a part of that person’s life as much as possible. That’s why whenever you find that someone is making an effort to include himself/herself into your life a lot, then it’s a sure sign of attraction. If this person is making a constant push to learn about your hobbies and interests, then that really means you have an admirer in your midst.

6. This person listens to you and makes you feel that you’re always heard.

Lastly, if a person is a great listener to whenever you are talking, and is always making a constant effort to understand what you’re saying, then this person is very interested in you. We always want our loved ones to feel like they’re being heard and appreciated. That’s why the people who love you will always acknowledge your being by listening to everything you want to get off your chest.

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2 comments
  1. I got 5 out 6 but the same guy cheated and dumped me for lock down any theories just want s physical contact xx

  2. My husband of 37 years is having a crush on someone. I’m 59 and she looks to be in her 20’s. He is 60. He sends her romantic gifs every other day. I’m sure he’s sending her gifts as well. I rarely get any compliments unless I prompt him to do so. We do everything together fishing,concerts, dancing. He comes home at the same time everyday so I don’t think this is physical. He rarely tells me he loves me in person only when I say it first. He tells me he loves me on the phone mostly without promptness. He never buys me anything anymore unless I ask him. Could this be a crush, infatuation, emotiona affair or limerance. Is this midlife crisis, depression or do I have a cheater or player on my hand.

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