In life, you’re going to want to find yourself a quality guy to spend the rest of your life with. But what does a high-quality guy look like exactly? Well, it can differ depending on who we are and what we look for in relationships. After all, we are all unique and individualistic human beings who carry with us our own set of personal preferences. We all want different things out of love and relationships – and it’s safe to say that we all have different tastes when it comes to choosing men.
But one thing is for certain, all women want a quality guy with whom they can really build a real loving future. But what exactly does this guy look like? That’s the trick. A lot of times, we are all going to have to go through a number of failed relationships with terrible men in order for us to figure out what we’re really looking for in relationships. And that process can be excruciating and downright heartbreaking. It’s always devastating to grow attached to a person only to realize that that person isn’t who you thought they were going to be.
You end up having to go through the process of detaching yourself from that whole situation. And that’s never easy. That is always such a pain and a hassle to go through. But that’s a necessary step towards really figuring out what you want out of life and relationships. However, that doesn’t mean that you have to go into the dating world completely clueless as to what you should be looking for. The better the idea that you have of what your ideal man looks like, the faster and easier it will be for you to weed out the bad ones.
Of course, the “ideal” man can be subjective. It really varies on a case to case basis. But there are universal qualities that most women would want their ideal men to have. There are just some specific character traits that are present in quality men that all women tend to yearn for. And if you know what to look for in the men you date, then the easier the dating process becomes for you.To give you a better idea of what a high-quality guy really looks like, read on further:
1. He is consistent in how he treats you.
He doesn’t act hot and cold. He doesn’t act coy and shy about liking you. He tells you upfront that he likes you and that he’s interested in you. And he won’t play hard to get with you. He won’t be playing any games with you at all. He’s always going to be taking you seriously. He’s going to make sure that you know that this isn’t a game to him; that this isn’t just his idea of passing the time.
2. He never stops working on his own personal growth.
You know that he’s a great guy if he’s never contented. He’s a really great guy if he doesn’t settle for mediocrity. He puts pressure on himself to be the best that he can possibly be. He knows that he isn’t going to settle for a life that is “good enough” when he knows he can do so much more. He is ambitious and he is driven to succeed.
3. He pushes and motivates you to pursue your own growth as well.
And because he is so ambitious, he somehow pushes you to be the same way. He inspires and motivates you to really pursue your own growth. He somehow brings out the best in you. He is the kind of guy who believes in you even when you no longer believe in yourself.
4. He opens up about himself to you.
He makes himself vulnerable towards you. He doesn’t want to engage in any power struggles with you. He isn’t going to act cold or distant. He’s really going to open up to you about the intimate aspects of his life. He does this so that you know that he trusts you – and that you can trust him in return.
5. He always makes sure to show his appreciation for you.
He never takes you for granted. He is the kind of guy who is always going to express his gratitude for you. He is always going to make sure that you really know just how much he values you.
6. He is always humble when he’s with you.
He never acts snobbish. He never acts like he’s someone who is above you. He doesn’t see himself as a greater human being. He knows that if he wants to be with you, he’s going to have to humble himself. He knows that he’s going to have to meet you halfway every so often; and that he’s not always going to be able to get what he wants. He’s the kind of guy who sees you as a genuine partner; not a mere object that he can use for his own personal pleasures.