Unconditional love is the best.
There is nothing in the world that quite matches the experience of falling in love. It’s one of the most freeing, liberating, and exhilarating experiences that anyone is ever going to have the privilege of having. It’s a very enriching sensation that is truly unlike any other; it has the power to completely alter your view of the world and your total outlook on life.
There are very few forces on this earth that match the raw emotional power of unconditional love. And the best part about real unconditional love is that it just grows stronger and better over time. It’s a completely transcendent experience that allows you to fully accept yourself and your partner for who you really are as people.
You don’t get caught up in selfish desires and ulterior motives because you are both too busy having a fun and enriching life together in love. And that’s something that a lot of couples continue to aspire to: unconditional love. They want to be able to get to a place of untainted love that is immune to any prejudice, judgment, or moments of weakness. All couples aspire to have the kind of love that is unquestionable; the kind of love that has no doubts or second guesses.
Sure, things can be going fine in a relationship, but how do you know for sure if the love that you have is one that’s absolutely unconditional? It’s not enough that your partner tells you that they love you unconditionally. Words can only go so far. Unconditional love truly manifests itself through both words and actions. You just have to be able to observe your partner well to really figure out if the love that you share for one another is truly unconditional.
1. Your partner tells you that they truly want to grow old with you.
Unconditional love is always going to stand the test of time. And so if your partner has expressed a deep interest in wanting to spend the rest of time with you, then that’s always a good testament to unconditional love. They love you so much that they practically can’t imagine living a life without you or a life with any other person for that matter.
2. You trust one another with your deepest and most vulnerable secrets.
Another indicator of real unconditional love is a mutual trust that can’t be broken, violated, or tarnished. It’s the kind of trust that is uncompromising and unwavering. It’s the kind of trust that you can always rely on regardless of the circumstances. You and your partner can always trust one another with your deepest and darkest secrets because of your unconditional love.
3. Your partner never misses out on an opportunity to tell you that they are proud of you.
One more important aspect of having unconditional love for someone is the pride that comes with loving a person. Not only would you be so proud to actually fall in love with a person that is so near to your heart, but you are so proud to have that person fall in love with you as well. You take pride in the fact that you’re together and you never miss out on an opportunity to tell your partner of your pride.
Even the most perfect couples in the world are going to have arguments and disagreements every once in a while. Just because you love each other unconditionally doesn’t mean that you aren’t going fight sometimes. But that’s the beauty of your love. Despite all the fights and challenges that may befall your relationship, you always find your way back into a place of love for one another. You can be certain that no matter how volatile things may get, you can always rely on your love.
5. Your partner goes all out with efforts to make you happy and comfortable.
Your partner would go above, over, and beyond just to bring a smile to your face. They consider your happiness to be their own and they would stop at nothing to make you happy. They find joy in your joy because of your unconditional love for one another. They always make it a point to keep you pleased and elated in life.
6. Your partner is always going to protect you the best that they can.
It’s almost like a parental instinct kicks in whenever you love someone unconditionally. It’s like the love a parent would have for a child. It’s unconditional and it transcends any other kind of protective love in the world. It’s a love that would never want any harm or pain to befall the person that they love so deeply. It’s the kind of love that breeds a nurturing and caring environment at all times.
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