If you think women are good at manipulating, wait until you meet some men. They can do whatever it takes to get you into bed and then leave you once they’ve satisfied their desires. Some women don’t even realize they’re being manipulated by these men. They believe they’re in control of the situation, but then the man loses interest after being intimate.
Many women end up hurt and scared of commitment after being let down by men who promised love but disappeared after sex. While there are good guys who are sincere and caring, there are also players who only want one thing.
Let’s look at some ways men use to manipulate women into sleeping with them.
1. Those Three Words
Some girls are easily swayed by the phrase ‘I Love You,’ and many players exploit this. After dating for a while, when you’re uncertain about his feelings, he utters those words, and you give in. Once he achieves his goal, his affection fades. Many hearts are hurt by these words. Be careful of trusting every ‘I love you’; he could be using this trick to get you to sleep with him.
2. The Marriage Trick
Many hearts break over marriage vows. Men exploit women’s longing for wedlock. They dangle marriage, withhold advances, and when intimacy happens, their interest fades. Their goal achieved: luring you to bed. They use marriage promises to their advantage, playing with your dreams. Stay cautious and protect your heart.
3. Alcohol
He keeps urging you to drink more during your date, pressuring you. Back at home, your thoughts are fuzzy due to the alcohol, and you end up in a situation you might not have chosen if you were clear-headed. Be cautious of such tactics and prioritize your well-being. Trust your instincts and don’t let anyone push you into decisions you’re uncomfortable with.
4. The “Friendship” Role
Certain guys may pretend to be your friends, spending time with you and offering support, until they achieve their goal of intimacy. They maintain consistent communication to build trust, but once they’ve achieved their intention, they may gradually decrease their interactions and eventually stop altogether. It’s important to be cautious of such behavior and prioritize relationships based on respect and genuine care.
5. The Sweet Tongue
Certain guys have a way with words, knowing how and when to say things to persuade you. They can use charming words to make you feel special, even when you might not believe it. They shower you with compliments about your looks, saying things like, “You’re incredibly beautiful, your beauty is so captivating.” While their sweet talk might feel nice, it’s important to be cautious and not let it fool you into doing something you will regret later.
6. The Sad Story Trick
Women are often very sensitive and empathetic, feeling deeply for others. When he opens up and shares his vulnerabilities, it can make you feel a strong connection and a desire to support him. He might talk about his struggles, and your caring nature makes you want to comfort him, leading you to lower your defenses. It’s important to be cautious though, as emotional connections can sometimes cloud judgment and influence your decisions.
Share Your Thoughts:
Did you recognize any of these tricks? Share your thoughts in the comments – we’re here to listen and learn.
#6 is the biggest one…the sad story trick. They may be married or living with someone and they tell you how sad they are in the relationship. If it were that bad they would not be in it. Life is about choices…that’s what I think.
Old stuff. Nothing new.
I would just like to state for the record that all of these have been done to me by a female! I am male! So maybe it doesn’t happen as often as men on women but your thread is sexist, gender equality please
J. Storm ….. spot on!
true
had similar experience with women
MEN Take note Use your brains before your f*ck !
If you give yourself to early to these modern day narcissistic emotional abusers you will be nothing but a contributor to posts just like this
Make her work for it like they manipulate us to believe that their not just after an easier lifestyle than being 30+and still single !!
When it’s a proven fact she’s legit for a 50 /50 relationship then go for it
Fake tarts !!
The narcissist is in the building these comments are proof that all this is true.
yes this happened to me just the my life is so bad. my wife dose not want me or love me its over. it’s took time months..but he still maintains it was ever with her. until she started contacting me..she was trying her hardest to keep him. the only thing he would say to me was ignore her..she had my address if his sat nav. she sat on it for months did nothing. they were both very toxic..but he maintained his kindness. how very sad. I was married myself for 28 yrs so I’m no fool. I get her some wise words and him..I told him to grow up and bloked him..it’ still hurt still dose..xx
Not this Guy: I Love my Girl more than anything in this world, She is my whole world and more and I don’t ever want to lose her. She is on my mind 24/7/365
Once a woman allows a male friend into her life, it’s only a matter of time before she’s tricked. Most men are like a python. They master the game very well and always capitalize on a woman’s vulnerability!
Every one of these recently happened to me accept the friendship one where it got less and less regarding communication. But all the other ones 100%!!
I was blown away by being asked to marry someone and finding out it was only done to get sex. And immediately the next morning they were revealed. And they couldn’t understand why I was upset. I later found out that they would go so far as to buy engagement rings for their “marks“ just so that they could get sex without having to actually commit to marriage itself. And they still didn’t understand why I didn’t believe or trust them in the future and didn’t want to have a thing to do with them. I really wish I’d known about this game early on.
Wow imagine if WOMEN uses such tricks to gain financially or status or whatever else!!??
Yeah watch out women while you’re swayed by the bribe you need to submit!!
Just cute or hot temptress when you lot do it of course!
You forgot to mention the 2 most effective tricks luring women to opening their legs wide for you:
1. Money (abundance)
2. Buying them food and presents
The amount of relationships that have been wrecked from a combination of tricks 3,4,5 & 6, would be off the charts! This is what happens when Narcissism meets Hypergamy. Can’t wait for the day a data-base is created so the genuine can get peace of mind
I am a married woman, and my husband has cheated on me by sexting another woman, and he said he loves her, and he pursued her, he wanted sex from her, until he got caught, my husband has a sweet tongue, when he speaks to other women, anyways it still hurts
There are plenty of women out there that are always wet wanting sex and do the same to men
If the intention is to trick someone, then that is sexual assault.
point 5 is beggest of all some guys are use this trick to get women to sleep them
let’s man up as men’s
now a days these tricks don’t work anymore. look at how difficult it is to date a woman and the number of single people on the rise. woman expect too much even on a first date. to make life easier people should just show their intentions rather then beating around the bush and wasting time with dating. no one is on earth forever, people have dreams and desires, and these cause them to move around or have future plans. women use dating for free food, rather than saying they are not interested.
Unfortunately the one and only way for a women to know if a man really loves her is to sleep with him, of he kees coming back for more in a respectable way and treats you good. He loves you. Period.