Love isn’t merely going to be just two people who are attracted to one another. It’s so much more complicated than that. Love is never going to be something that you can just choose to simplify. It has taken many generations for men to answer the questions surrounding love and romance. And we have only scratched the surface on the whole phenomenon.
Here’s something that you have to know about love: it’s not just purely about procreation. And if you think that, then you’re just purely being naïve in your approach to love.
You might be so desperate to have a man fall in love with you and that’s okay. No one is going to blame you for it. We all want love after all. We are all human beings who are going to require a certain sense of affection from those who are close to us.
However, you can’t let your eagerness get the best of you. You can’t let your excitement compromise your logic and rationality. And if you’re completely deluded in your pursuit of love, then this article might help you out.
Here are a few things that you might want to learn about men in order for them to fall in love with you.
1. He will fall in love only when he’s ready.
He has to be ready. You might be the right girl for him. You might be doing everything right. But if he doesn’t feel like he’s ready to fall in love, then it’s just never going to be the case.
2. He will want to have some sense of control.
Not to say that he will want to call ALL of the shots. But you can’t make him feel like he doesn’t have any control over the matter. He will want to fall in love with you on his own terms. And that’s why he will still have some sense of control when it comes to falling in love with you.
3. He has to be sure that he has the capacity to take care of you.
He has to be the kind of guy who knows that he isn’t going to fall short when it comes to taking care of you. He is a man and he knows that if you ever get into a relationship, he will have to provide for you.
He will have to protect you and take care of you. If he knows that he is virtually incapable of doing so, then he will not allow himself to fall in love with you.
4. He will want to feel the spark in the bedroom as well.
Not to say that men are typically superficial but they’re going to place a lot of value in sexual intimacy before they allow themselves to fall in love. He will want to make sure that he’s actually in a relationship with someone he has some real sexual chemistry with.
He knows that sexual compatibility is always going to play a very big role in whether or not he’s going to fall in love with someone. He knows that sex is more than just physical pleasure. It speaks volumes of compatibility.
5. He has to feel accepted for who he is.
He has to always be made to feel like he is being accepted for who he is. He has to be made to feel like he isn’t being pressured or forced to change.
If you want him to fall in love with you, then you have to do a better job of making him feel like you’re going to accept him for who he really is. You have to let him know that you’re not going to pressure him to be anyone other than he really is.
6. He needs to see the commitment in you as well.
He is going to want to make sure that you are going to be just as committed to him as well. Before he really falls in love with you and commits to you, he wants to make sure that you would be receptive of his advances.
And most importantly, he will want to make sure that you would show the willingness to commit to you as well. He wants to make sure that he won’t be investing himself in someone who wouldn’t invest in him.
7. He has to see a real potential for growth.
A man isn’t going to want to allow himself to get into a relationship with you if he doesn’t see a potential for growth. He has to know that the two of you actually have a chance at making something special.
He’s always going to know that love is a chance that he has to take. And so, he has to make sure that the odds are good before he actually takes the dive. If the odds don’t look good, then he’s going to withdraw back into himself.
This article was clearly written by an older woman that was left for a younger one. One can just feel the resentment seeping through. Hope she finds peace.