It’s time to relax and be easy with love.
Insecurities can plague even the strongest of men. Whenever you find yourself in emotionally compromising situations, don’t fret. You’re not alone. Many men have been there before and have gotten through it. You can allow yourself to be insecure in your relationship. That’s perfectly normal. You love your woman so much that the thought of her leaving you would absolutely devastate you. You try your best to put on a brave face and keep a positive outlook on your relationship and that’s really the best you can do.
For the most part, you might even be overreacting a little bit. If you’re confident that you’re in a strong and loving relationship, you shouldn’t have to worry about your woman leaving you for someone else. Just treat her with the love and respect that she deserves and you should be fine. If it’s any consolation, there are signs that you can keep your eye out for that can help you determine whether she loves you enough to stay with you forever.
Here are some indications that she’s always going to stay by your side:
1. You’ve been together for a long time.
If even after all of the mud you’re relationship has had to go through, she still chooses to be with you, then it’s a safe bet to think that she’ll stay with you forever. If your relationship has had to endure its share of successes, heartbreaks, hardships, and happy memories, then it’s probably built a strong enough foundation to last a long time. She’s seen who you really are and she’s comfortable with it at this point. She really does love you for who you are.
2. She envisions a future for the both of you.
It’s not just about living in the moment with her. She sees a future for herself and she envisions that you’re in it as well. She knows that she can’t imagine a future without you standing by her side, holding her hand. She doesn’t even want to entertain the thought of not being able to grow old with you. She builds her plans and goals around the prospect of you staying together for a long time. She knows that being together will be the only key to achieving a lifetime full of happiness.
3. She always makes an effort to spend time with you.
She can be clingy and it can be cute sometimes. She respects your space and your privacy, but she’ll grab at any opportunity to spend time with you because she loves you. She understands that moments spent with you going to end up as memories that she’ll cherish forever. It doesn’t even matter what you’re doing, whether you’re on a great wild adventure together, or just lounging around on the couch. As long as you’re by each other’s side, then she’s happy and content.
4. She’s honest with you all the time.
She’s not afraid of opening up to you or briefing you on her everyday activities because she knows you don’t judge her or belittle her. She tells you everything about her past and her present. When she wants to go out with her friends, she doesn’t feel like she has to hide it from you. She doesn’t have to lie to sneak out and spend time away from you because she knows you’ll respect her space if she asks.
5. She’s very vocal about her feelings when she’s with you.
She’s an open book when it comes to you. She wears her heart on her sleeve because she knows that you won’t ever do anything to hurt her deliberately. She allows herself to be vulnerable to you because she feels safe and secure in the enclosure of your arms. You are her rock and her fortress and she would never ever want to leave you because she’s afraid she might crumble without you there to support her.
6. She includes you in her life as much as possible.
If she has a tough decision to make with work, she wants to know what you think about it. She wants you to meet her family and friends because you’re just as important to her as they are. She relishes the thought of you sharing lives your together because it comes naturally to her. Your union is very organic and unforced.
7. She loves you unconditionally.
You have flaws. You have imperfections. You have your shortcomings. But she loves you despite all of these. She’s going to stay at your side forever even when you screw up; even when you drop the ball. She accepts you for who you are because she understands that you’re only human. She wants to be the piece of the puzzle that completes your world and she hopes that you’ll let her. You won’t ever have to worry about her leaving you because she’s just as scared of what the world would be like without you
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