When you hear the term “soulmate,” you might have a good idea of what that word could mean. But here’s the thing: a soulmate can mean so many things to so many different people. But sometimes, people can really overcomplicate what it means to have a soulmate or what it means to be someone’s soulmate.
Ultimately, it’s a fairly simple concept that doesn’t need to be as complicated as it is made out to be. To put things simply, a soulmate is someone who serves as the mate of your soul. And that’s the essence of it.
A soulmate is someone who is going to share a similar vibe and energy with you; someone who actually understands what your purpose is in this world. Your soulmate is someone who helps you get to where you need to be and become who you need to become. That’s why the two of you are bound to have a very strong spiritual connection.
A soulmate is ultimately in your life to help you remind you of what your true purpose in this life is; someone who helps you discover more about who you’re truly meant to be.
Soulmates aren’t necessarily romantic relationships. And that’s a common misconception that people will have about soulmates. But it’s possible (in fact, it’s likely), that soulmates develop romantic connections between them because of the strong and intimate bonds that they have with one another.
If you are wondering whether you have already encountered your soulmate in this life, then this article is going to help put your mind at ease. There are a few signs that you could be keeping an eye out to know whether the person you’re with is really your soulmate or not.
1. You feel an instant bond and connection when you first meet.
Even if you’ve only just met, you feel a very strong and significant connection between the two of you. It’s so seamless with the way that your personalities just mesh with one another so well. Despite the fact that you’re meeting for the first time, it can feel like you’ve known each other for much longer than that.
2. You have a very strong communication game.
It can be very easy to have a strong communication game with your soulmate. The reason this is the case is that you always feel like you are free to express yourself in whatever way you want with your soulmate. You will always feel comfortable to just speak your mind. And more importantly, you are also going to be genuinely interested in whatever they might have to say about something.
3. You always feel like you can be your true selves around each other.
There are no walls. There are no masks. There are no barriers. You are always going to be your true and genuine selves around each other. There is no such thing as deceit, unfaithfulness, infidelity, or disloyalty between the two of you. You always stay bare and genuine. You always allow your true selves to shine because you aren’t afraid of doing so. You know that you don’t have to worry about getting hurt just by opening yourself up.
4. You learn more about who you are because of your relationship.
In some weird way, you learn so much more about who you are as a result of being with your soulmate. You might think that you’re just learning more and more about what they are like and who they are. But the truth is that you’re learning just as much about your own personality as well. You are learning more about what you’re really made up of.
5. You don’t feel the need to complete one another.
You don’t really buy into the whole idea of having to complete one another. You both know that you are both wholes as your individual selves. Instead, what you are able to do for each other is supplement one another’s personalities. You are able to highlight the strengths and high points of each of your individual characters.
6. You are on the same page on the important things.
You might not necessarily agree on everything in life. You might not always see eye to eye on everything. But when it comes to the important things, you seem to be on the same page. There is very minimal friction between the two of you when it comes to the big stuff. It’s so easy for you to agree and move forward with your individual agenda.
7. Your instincts are telling you that this is the case.
And lastly, your instincts are telling you that this person is your soulmate. A lot of what makes up soulmate connections is intuition. And if your intuition is advising you to always treat this particular person with love and care, then it’s possible that they’re your soulmates.
I felt this for my spouse but found out that it was charm and not substance. He played along with stuff and was sweet and kind until we were married. Then he stopped trying once he had me.