If these are true for you, your friend is your soulmate.
A lot of us are going to have that one friend. There’s always that one friend who just forces us to think what if all of the time. There’s a tangible connection there that neither of you can shake and so you’re just left to wonder about all of the possibilities. You think that maybe there’s something there that’s worth exploring, but you don’t necessarily want to risk the friendship for anything.
If you buy into the whole concept of soulmates, there is a high chance that your best friend just happens to be your soulmate. There’s a way for you to find out. You just have to be wary of the signs in your relationship. If the symptoms are strong, then that could imply the need for you to leap of faith. Take a risk and make a move. You never know what good will come of it.
According to leading experts in the field, it’s perfectly reasonable for people only to want to be with the one when it comes to long-term relationships. The reason for this is because it’s so rare for two people to develop a level of compatibility with one another, that the moment they do manage to find someone they mesh seamlessly with, they shouldn’t take that for granted. And the key for most people is figuring out that what they have with someone is special.
They can’t afford to be complacent or relaxed about it. If you think that your best friend has the potential to be your soulmate, then you need to take that chance. You need to be willing to take that risk. Yes, it’s going to be very risky, but you have to keep in mind that love is always going to be a risk. So you might as well be taking that risk with someone you’re already comfortable with being.
But there’s no denying the awkwardness that may come if things don’t work out between the two of you. However, you also have to remember that if your best friend is your soulmate, then there is a good chance that things are going to work out for both of you. And you are mostly going to regret not taking the opportunity over just trying and failing. That’s for sure. You don’t want to be living the rest of your life thinking about what if? especially when you know you have a chance to act on it right now
But still, it’s scary. And you need to put your mind at ease. To do that, you just need to seek the signs. You need to know that your best friend is your soulmate. And how can you know for sure? Stay vigilant. If a lot of the things that are listed here apply to your best friend, then there’s a really good chance that you really are soulmates.
1. There is no shortage of trust in your relationship.
You always trust one another. You can depend on each other to always be there no matter what. You have each other’s backs when life gets rough, and you are still there to celebrate through the good times.
2. You always get encouraged by them in your life.
Your soulmate should also be your biggest cheerleader. They should always be pushing you towards your dreams, and they should be sharing your enthusiasm for the significant milestones that you happen to achieve in life.
3. You always find yourselves flirting with one another.
Of course, if you have already had subtle flirtations with one another throughout your friendship, you just can’t deny that there is romantic energy there that you need to act on.
4. You have no difficulties trying to understand one another.
You just get one another. You don’t feel like you need too much effort into trying to explain yourself. You don’t contact like you have to censor or filter yourself in any way. You can just be your true genuine selves with one another, and that’s not something you can do with just anyone.
You just go to your soulmate right away whenever something significant has happened to you. Whenever you have important news to share, whether good or bad, you immediately run to your best friend first before anyone else.
6. You never fail to ask their opinions about important matters.
Whenever you’re tasked with having to come to an important decision about something, you regularly consult your best friend. There is no other person whose opinion you would trust more than your best friend’s.
7. You would rather spend time with them than anyone else.
And lastly, you know that this person is essential and valuable to you when you don’t even think about wanting to spend time with another person.
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I have a lady that has been my friend on Facebook for more than four years. We got close in this lockdown and I told her my interest in her. But shei is still debating if I am the right person going by the pain she experienced in her last relationship. It is too early to determine if she is my soul mate. Because we are just few weeks old.