You’re an attractive person!
Self-confidence is incredibly important especially when you’re looking to win over the attention of other people. Sometimes, you really have to believe that you’re an attractive person for you to be able to really attract the affection of others. There are just so many people out there who make the mistake of depriving themselves of being in relationships because they don’t think that they’re attractive or good looking enough to be in them. They don’t pursue the romances that they want to be in because they think they have hat it takes to get people to become attracted in them.
While it would be wrong to be overly confident and arrogant about how you look, it would be just as bad to understate and devalue how attractive you really are. It’s important to realize that relationships aren’t always going to be solely about physical attraction but there’s no denying that it plays a huge part of it. You have to be able to believe in your self-worth and just how uniquely beautiful you are as a human being. You have every right to have other people fall in love with you. You can’t be shutting yourself off from love just because you don’t believe that you could ever be attractive enough for anyone.
To help you convince further, perhaps you just need to be aware of the signs that people really find you attractive. Maybe your insecurity and vulnerability has blinded you from the indications that other people actually become physically attracted to you. Read on until the end of this article to find out the signs that are actually more attractive than you have actually led yourself to believe.
1. People give you double-takes when you pass them by on the street.
You have a very understated beauty and attractiveness about you that causes people to look at you twice when you happen to pass them by. It’s a very subtle indicator and that might be the reason why you haven’t noticed it. But if you learn to pay attention, then it will be as clear as day.
2. People don’t compliment you about your good looks because they assume that you’re already aware of it.
Typically, you would assume that the most good looking people are constantly at the receiving end of compliments about their beauty. But the truth is, the most attractive people don’t need to be told about how attractive they are. Typically, people just assume that attractive people are aware of their attractiveness and it’s something that just doesn’t need to be pointed out anymore.
3. But when people do compliment you, the always do so casually because they think that you probably get it a lot.
You don’t get compliments all too often, but when you do, they are always delivered so casually and normally. People just assume that you hear this kind of stuff all the time so they don’t really put much weight behind the delivery of their compliment.
In general, people just assume that you are someone who doesn’t have any insecurities to deal with at all. It’s difficult for people to grasp the idea of someone who is as attractive and as good looking at you still has to deal with insecurities just like everyone else.
5. You catch people staring at you from across the room at a restaurant or bar.
People aren’t staring at you because you have an unremarkable face. If you find that people stare at you in public, it’s probably because they genuinely find your physical features quite intriguing and attractive. So if you find that someone cute is staring at you in public, muster up the courage to actually approach that person. You never know what might come out of it.
6. You rarely go on for too long without having some sort of relationship with someone.
You might think that your failed relationships and short-term flings are an indicator of your unattractiveness, but that’s not the case. The fact that you have a vibrant and active romantic life is a sign that people do find you attractive. It’s just a matter of building the personality and emotional maturity that’s necessary to actually sustain a relationship.
7. You go after the life that you want to live for yourself and that’s what makes you most attractive.
The most attractive thing about a person would always be passion. So if you’re a really passionate individual who is willing to go after the life that you think you really deserve for yourself, then people are really going to find you attractive. The reason why passion for life is an attractive quality to have is because with passion comes potential. If people see that you can be so passionate about your career or your hobbies, then they know that you have the potential to be just as passionate about love and relationships as well.
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I must say I really agree with this post. I have hardly, if ever in my entire life, received compliments. I’ve never gotten along well with girls. I still don’t. It’s always been some sort of competition or they get really insecure around me even though I’m genuinely interested in being their friend. It’s always been a struggle. My first bf was when I was 23 and when I was taken, many men approached me apologizing that they haven’t asked me out because they were too afraid of rejection. I really appreciate this post. Thank you for this. Beautiful woman are the most kind. We’ve had our fair share of hardships and hurtful experiences. I have children now. They’re going through what I went through with mean girls in their lives… but lucky for them, I understand and can help them go through it without feeling like it’s them.
Yup, you’ve described my experiences all through life. I love people, i get on bettr with men and women, but sometimes they get so insecure and spiteful, I feel sorry for them. I don’t get compliments but that’s ok. I have experienced alot of these signs.
The same thing is always happening to me. This is a brilliant post. It’s intriguing that some of us can relate to the same experience all over the world. 👍🏾
I thought it was just me. I relate to being either overly admired or overly hated. I don’t have many female friends because of that and it wasn’t until my early adulthood that I realized why.
I also agree. I was never short of male interest and never went more than a week without a boyfriend but hardly ever received a single compliment. In fact I was bullied at school and all my workplaces by other females throughout my life and was desperately unhappy in school and jobs. I always found it difficult to make female friends as much as a tried. I really don’t know if my looks were the reason but it’s a strange coincidence! I am now 63 and still considered attractive and still with a very good figure but it’s finally nice to be older and not be the “pretty girl that everyone hates”! I still have no friends but my wonderful husband and children and their partners, and a couple of great work colleagues more than make up for that.
While I do not necessarily disagree with the view point of this article, I cannot agree with then either for my personal situation. I’d like to think I am an attractive person, I do rarely get compliments from people other than direct family members, but I rarely receive male attention. I seem firmly locked in the friend zone. I get along with with women, and have plenty of female friends. Maybe it’s something else?? But, I don’t think the items listed in this article are necessarily an indicator or attractiveness one way or the other.
I am not quite sure how to take this article as it does make sense to me, my perception of it is a bit off I suppose due to my own lack of confidence in myself.
I am told I am beautiful, gorgeous etc often by men and I get hit on and asked out quite a bit as well. My take has always been that family/friends tell me I am beautiful and pretty because they feel they have to and don’t want me too feel bad. Guys tell me I’m beautiful and ask me out because they only want one thing…
That is how I interpret it. I have never felt or heard those words and truly believed it.
So I have a lot of work to do on my inner self and a lot of healing, because I do know I am a beautiful person inside, my heart is full of love and I have the most genuine, grateful and caring soul.
With a little work I soon will believe that my inside beauty will shine just as bright on the outside ❤️
Just my two cents here – I’m not talking about the goddess-level beauties – those people are special – nobody will tell them they’re ugly!
I consider myself as average looking. Growing up my definition of beauty was based on girls (classmates) who were always called on as muses, eternally praised by teachers and women, being crushed on by boys all the time and were joining beauty contests. I wasn’t like that at all so I didn’t think of myself as attractive for the longest time. I don’t have many female friends and I don’t get compliments from people I know or I’m acquainted with.
After my awkward teenage stage I worked on myself meaning, learned to use makeup and fix myself in the mirror, chose clothes that flatter my body, etc. I got many compliments from men and women (though curiously not from people I know or are of my age). I traveled to a specific country and was surprised from all the attention I got especially from men, random strangers who would greet and talk to me, offer me help or give some random freebies (nothing shady!) just random acts of kindness. I don’t get that overwhelming attention from where I live, so in that sense there’s really subjectivity when it comes to beauty.
And the classmates I mentioned earlier who were muses and were constantly praised by a lot of people? Maybe they had other priorities, but they won’t be described as stunningly attractive now.
Physical beauty can only get you so far but you still need to work on yourself. And even if you’re not considered as physically beautiful you can compensate by highlighting your best features, knowing your flaws and working on them.
You are so right after all👍🏾💕
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder….
I have no female friends or close relationships with female co-workers. When I have had problems with co-workers my male managers have told me it is not me; that my co-worker is threatened by my intelligence and my good looks. WOW! Like I can do anything about either of these.
When I went to a highschool reunion recently I had no less than 6 men who are now divorced tell me how much they were attracted to me in high school and my early 20s. They were all intimidated by my intelligence and figured I always had dates because of how good looking I was. Then they all asked me out because they were now divorced. It was stranger because they had married the cheerleaders and “IN GIRLS”. These women did not age well and I guess their relationships didn’t age well either.
I am now 57 and I still have men love how intelligent I am and ask me if I know how beautiful I am. Especially now that I am aging I feel insecure about my looks. I am fit and still have my natural blonde hair. I know I am well put together but I see plenty of women I would consider stunning who are in their 50s. Yet still I have men intimidated by the things I have accomplished and how pretty I am. These same qualities are still intimidating to other women. This is a very lonely place to be and I often wish I was just an airhead and had friends. I never have want for men wanting to be with me. Yet I am still single. I just get involved in life and really don’t have time for random dating. I was widowed with an infant son when I was 36. Many years I just was mom and these men seem amazed I won’t have married quickly after my husband died. IDK, it’s complicated.
I even had a group of adult women post a (my name) haters club on their department bulletin board where they actually signed their names! I was older than most of them, I thought it was because I was smarter than them! I did eventually marry the office “hunk” lol.
I can relate to much of this. In addition to becoming a professional that is another factor in this picture- attractive and accomplished! I continue to respect my own attractiveness in a low key way. The glances I am aware of when just out and about from strangers are a barometer. Like Netty Draper in Mad
Men stated, ‘as long as I turn heads, I am worth my keep’!
Telling another beautiful woman that she is, is always received well and surprised. Compliments from attractive women is the best compliment.