When a relationship starts to feel strained, it can be challenging and emotionally draining for both of you. Some couples face the issues together and try to work things out, but sadly, not all guys take that honorable path. Some men resort to hurtful and manipulative behaviors when they want to break up. It’s not easy to deal with and can leave you feeling confused and hurt.
Let’s explore the eight crappy things men may do when they want to break up.
He Keeps You Guilty for the Tensions in Your Relationship
You know when he starts blaming you for everything that’s not right in the relationship? It’s like he’s putting all the guilt on your shoulders, even if it’s not your fault. Feeling burdened with guilt and self-doubt makes it easy for him to walk away without taking responsibility for his actions.
He Calls You Crazy When You Denounce Him for His Behavior
It hurts when you try to talk to him about how his actions hurt you, but he brushes you off, calling you crazy or too emotional. It’s like he’s trying to make you doubt your feelings and push your concerns aside. But he doesn’t realize that it only worsens things and avoids dealing with your real problems.
He Starts Whining as Soon as He Disagrees with Something
You ever notice how he acts like a child whenever there’s a disagreement? Instead of having a grown-up talk, he starts whining and throwing a fit. It’s frustrating because it shows he’s not willing to face the issues together like adults should.
He Makes Plans with His Friends Without Even Telling You
Lately, it feels like he’s leaving you out of everything. He’s making plans with his friends without even bothering to tell you. It stings because it feels like he doesn’t care about including you anymore, and it makes you wonder where you stand in his life.
He Promises You Something and Does Not Keep His Promise
It’s tough when he promises you the world, but then nothing comes of it. He’s always saying things to keep you hanging on, but he never follows through. It’s heartbreaking because it makes you question if you can trust him at all.
He Openly Flirts with Other Girls in Public
You know when you see him flirting with other girls right in front of you? It hurts, like a punch in the gut. You start questioning if he still cares about you or if he’s already looking for a way out. It’s tough to swallow because it feels like he’s not even trying to hide it, and it leaves you feeling betrayed and unloved.
He Takes a Long Time to Answer Your Texts and Doesn’t Even Call Anymore
Remember those days when you could text all day and have those late-night calls? But now, he takes forever to reply, and it’s like he’s not even interested in talking to you anymore. The silence feels deafening, and you can’t help but wonder what changed and why he’s pulling away.
He Ends All Conversations About the Future
You ever notice how he avoids any talk about the future? It’s like he’s shutting the door on all those dreams you had together. The plans for vacations, building a life – he doesn’t want to discuss any of it. It’s heartbreaking because it feels like he’s giving up on what you once shared.
Its what am going through right now!Don’t even what to do.If u try to raise your concerns he just worsens!
Just do your thing. That’s what I have to do because someone lacks communication skills. So I just do things to better my self care and love me.
Same here have been for the last 13 years he makes promises he can’t keep
I got my aunt citizenship so we could be together on the belief and promise he would do the same for me as a UK citizen and get his visa so we can live in either country after a year of him living over here he is going back to Australia he has put traps as long the way financial traps to keep me hanging in there and says that everything is his I feel like my life has been a waste he won’t negotiate it’s his way or the highway
Very nasty don’t know how to get out or just keep having empty promises as I have helped him rebuild his business and done nothing for myself all this time I wanted to move to UK to be around my family as he doesn’t get on with his my life is a nightmare right now he is not understanding from my point of view as he is older he keeps saying that it’s ok I can do all these things when he is no longer around
A guy I was seeing started with excuses of why he couldn’t communicate, text would go unanswered & he literally stopped communicating..
He even sited his father’s health as a reason!!
Something felt off so I went online only to find in the 3 weeks things had felt different, he’d joined the singles group online where we first started chatting..
He’d even posted the day before inviting people to join him at a bar..
I denounced him on that post & messaged him privately..
I got that I was delusional, bi**h etc
Unfortunately, the sincere, authentic guy I thought he was, died that day & reality of who he was became clearer…
Had he told me prior to joining the site, which I’d spent 2.5 days with him on the day after he’d joined that site, I would have been sad but I could have still respected him..
Run away
I’m getting all of this in my relationship now and I want to let go but it seems so difficult cuz we work in d same office please any advice of how to let go
Why do they struggle w/ the truth ?
It’s going to hit a hit a nerve & break it up , anyway
Sucks!! I am a narcissistic magnet. I’ve been with my narc for 9 months going through this for the past 4 months. Narcissistic people only care about themselves. Everything that happens in the relationship I get blamed for.. one day he treats me really good n the next he is throwing my stuff outside. Calling me names.making me look like I’m the bad one. Making himself look like he’s innocent. I hate it but yet I love him. And they are SO good at lying too