When it comes to feelings, expressing is something not everyone is good at, especially guys. We all have seen guys who are not too generous with compliments and are considered to be too self-absorbed’ or even rude. Now, the guy may not be everything that you are labelling him to be, it can be your false judgment too. Guys, like girls, may not say expressive things too often; instead, they prefer to show them (the case is different if he is not doing that either).
If, currently in your relationship, you feel like your guy does not tell you that he cares about you or that he loves you a lot then you need to know this: It is not always words you need to pay attention to. There can be many other ways a guy can use to express his love for you; you just have to have a keen eye. If he does things like these, then he obviously wants to show you that he cares about you.
- He Tries His Best to Be a Good Listener:
Sometimes, all we need is someone who can listen to our rants and stories, someone to verbally share our day with. If your guy tries his best to be that person and listens to you, no matter what time of day or how long your story is then he actually really cares about you.
Moreover, he won’t be judgmental or annoyed and will always support you. This is one of the most prominent signs that he wants to show’ you that he cares.
- He’s Always Up for Taking Out Time For You:
If he is an adult with a busy schedule and not a minute to spare for himself but still says yes to you for any plans you make for him and yourself, he is a keeper. If, besides looking after his parents, taking classes, going to work and keeping up with friends, he keeps you on top of his priority list then you, my friend, are blessed with a very caring guy who believes that actions speak louder than words. He chooses not to only say that he cares, but also proves it.
- He is Protective:
He automatically becomes your instant bodyguard when he comes to know that someone hurt you, whether it is a girlfriend who made you cry or a guy at work who made you uncomfortable. You don’t have to ask him to look into the matter, he is all for making you feel good again and dealing with whatever hurt you in the first place. If your guy is like that then it is clear that he cares about you. It is one of his subtle ways to show how much he cares.
- He is Honest With You:
We always want the most important person in our life to say what we need to hear, be it good for us or not.
Your guy cares for you if he realizes that temporarily making you happy by saying what you want to hear is not better than being honest with you.
If he tells you what is right for you and what can be harmful, what can prove to be a failure because he has gone through it and what can prove to be successful, he really cares for you. He won’t slam his decisions on you, but his honest advice will always await you.
- He Does Little Things To Make You Happy:
Little things are always what make up the big thing that is ‘love’ in a relationship. If he goes out of his way and does little things like letting you pick a shirt for him or giving you his jacket when you’re cold or watching your favourite movie instead of his, it is his way of telling you that he cares about you.
- He is Always Clapping and Smiling:
He is always there to believe in you and make you feel good about yourself. If there is one thing without which a relationship cannot thrive, it is him believing in you and you believing in him. If he is always there to clap and smile on your success and never ever tries to demean your efforts, he’s the guy.
- He Rocks Your Bed:
By rocking, we mean doing what you like the most in bed. There must be one move that does the trick for you and if he knows it and does it again and again just to make you happy, not because he wants something in return, he’s REALLY caring.
- He Does All the Right Things:
If he makes a mistake, he apologizes. When he says you look good, he’s actually looking at you. When you’re upset, he’d do anything to cheer you up. If he does all the right things and makes you go aww’ too often then there is no bigger sign than this one to tell you that he cares about you.
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Are you the lucky girl I’m talking about in this article to be blessed with such an amazing man? What makes him stand out in your eyes? Let me know in the comments below!