This is the cold hard truth: we are all intimate creatures carrying our own intimate fantasies. OF course, we aren’t always allowed to have these fantasies materialize in reality. We aren’t always able to get intimate like they do in those pornographic films. We aren’t always going to be able to perform at mind-boggling levels. But that doesn’t mean that we can’t try.
Of course, part of being able to perform well in the bedroom is knowing just what it is your girl wants you to be doing to her. But how do you know that? Of course, a woman isn’t necessarily going to be so upfront about what she wants from you in bed – especially if you’ve just started dating or are just having a one-night stand.
You don’t always have the opportunity to know about their intimate inclinations without first developing a rhythm with them beforehand. So in this kind of scenario, you are essentially trying to take a shot in the dark.
Or maybe you’re in a long relationship after all. And you’re with a girl who you have a pretty active and healthy intimacy with. But lately, you feel like the quality of the intimacy has been dwindling. And you can’t quite put your finger on it.
You can’t figure out why. Is it something you’re doing? Or not doing? Is there something more that you could be doing, perhaps? Well, a recent survey was conducted by a team of relationship experts regarding the intimate preferences of women. And if you’re curious to find out what you can do to improve your performance in the bedroom, then read this article in its entirety.
1. She wants you to talk dirty to her.
A whopping 81% of women have confirmed that they wished their intimate partners would engage in dirty talk a lot more often while in the bedroom. Psychologists and experts have said that this is due to the human brain’s capacity as being the most powerful intimacy organ in the body. This desire for more verbal communication highlights the importance of emotional connection and excitement during intimacy moments. Moreover, navigating postfirst intimate encounter can often feel awkward, making meaningful dialogue even more crucial for building intimacy and trust. Engaging in dirty talk can help partners explore their desires and enhance their overall intimate experience.
The more that the brain gets stimulated in intimacy, then the more pleasure a person is going to be able to derive from the experience as a whole. Now as to what kind of dirty talk you’re supposed to be engaging in, that’s entirely up to you. It all really depends on the kinds of personalities that you have as well – and what you’re able to pull off with one another. It’s also important that you don’t come off as unnatural and overly uncharacteristic.
There’s also something incredibly liberating about talking dirty to your partner in the bedroom. Think about it. It’s the only acceptable place and event where you can say these things to one another. It’s also a attractive and intimate way to engage in conversation while being intimate with one another. You’re still communicating with your bodies and your voices.
2. Take her to the gentlemen’s club to help get her into the mood.
Now this may surprise you, but 7/10 women said they would want to try visiting a gentleman’s club before engaging in intimacy with their partners. Experts have concluded that it’s because of the psychological effects that the atmosphere of a adult venue can have on the mind.
There is a certain intimacy energy that is present in these strip clubs. And that kind of energy carries over into having really fun times in the bedroom. There’s just something incredibly stimulating about going to a gentlemen’s club that is filled with intimate energy before actually being intimate.
3. Make use of all sorts of toys and specially designed objects.
Now this may come as another surprise, but 6/10 women have confessed to wishing to have all sorts of intimacy toys and paraphernalia in the bedroom while being intimate. These foreign objects add a whole dynamic to the routine, drastically increasing the possibilities of what the two of you can do together in the bedroom.
There are so many products in the market that are purely designed to simulate pleasure for both men and women. It’s all a matter of experimentation.
4. Make use of blindfolds and handcuffs to subdue her.
And whether you like it or not, you must take control. 8/10 women have confirmed that they like to be with men who know how to command a intimate situation. And so, using blindfolds and handcuffs would be great – they completely disabled her. And so everything is up to you to make the night as grand and memorable as possible. She wants to let you do anything that you want to her passively.
Ladies, speak up
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