When you get into a relationship with someone, it’s likely that you would always want that relationship to last. You would always want to get into intimate relationships that are designed to last for the long-term. However, there is no escaping the fact that some people are just going to be looking for temporary flings and hookups. Unfortunately, there are going to be those of us who are too afraid of commitment; those who are too fearful of the idea of tying themselves down to someone for an extended period.
Of course, you might be with this man because you see some serious potential there. However, how sure are you that he is the same way? How sure are you that he’s someone who is actually looking to be in a long and committed relationship as well? Maybe you might think that things are getting real.
However, he might just be looking something casual and temporary with you. And that’s unfortunate because you’re only setting yourself up for disappointment. You are only setting yourself up for heartbreak by not having your expectations aligned.
If you notice that a lot of the things that are listed here actually apply to your relationship and the guy that you’re with, then it’s likely that he’s not really looking for anything serious with you.
1. He doesn’t really try to get in touch with you.
He doesn’t really reach out to you. He doesn’t really try to get in touch with you. He doesn’t seem interested to engage with you on an intimate level at all. You are the one who is always making an effort to have some lines of communication in the relationship. It’s as if you’re the only one who is really invested in trying to make things work.
2. He only ever really reaches out to you whenever he needs something.
And in the few times, he does try to reach out to you, it’s never really because he just wants to be talking to you. It’s not that he’s just looking to have some kind of conversation with you to get to know you better. It’s all just because he wants something from you. It’s all because he just wants some kind of favor or gift from you. He’s just looking to get something out of you.
3. He goes MIA from time to time without a trace.
He is inconsistent with his presence in your life. There are times wherein he will just completely vanish. There are moments wherein he will just completely disappear from your life. He doesn’t really give you the consistency that you need to be able to rely on him. You can’t really bring yourself to depend on him to always be there for you because of how inconsistent he is.
