Figuring out why so many women have such a hard time finding themselves a boyfriend or a husband can be complicated. There are a countless number of single women around the world and they all have different personal reasons as to why they can’t find the right man for themselves.Turns out, intelligence is one of the biggest factors contributing to women’s’ struggles of finding someone they could happily settle down with.
They say that intelligence is the real aphrodisiac but is it really? It quite the opposite of that. Intelligence is generally seen as one of the best traits a person could have but when it come to the love life of smart women things can go awry and here’s why:
1. The wrong man will never be entertained:
Women who are educated, bright-minded and bold don’t put up with when they realize he isn’t the one they’re looking for. They will be quick to put him in his place and move on ahead. They don’t make excuses and find reasons to stick with someone who isn’t up their alley. They will rightly put an end to an unhealthy relationship and not even start with when they think the man isn’t just right. Intelligent women can always see the red flags and they know what to do when they see them.
2. They won’t commit when the time isn’t right:
Intelligent, decisive women don’t commit to a man and a relationship when they know it’s not the right time for them to make a commitment. They don’t push themselves into a relationship that has come in their life when they’re just not prepared. If they’re not ready they won’t make any claims or promises. They know when they want something long lasting and when they want something short-lived and they act accordingly.
3. Being alone doesn’t bother them:
Women like them are independent. They don’t need a man to get by. Being alone is never bothersome. It doesn’t make them feel depressed. They’re completely fine and happy being by themselves and they can handle everything on their won. They’re definitely not one of those women who will date or marry someone so they don’t have to be on their own. They’re actually the opposite. They will choose to spend their time with someone for reasons much, much more solid than just not wanting to be on their own.
4. Emotions can’t take over their mind:
Smart ladies don’ let their emotions and feelings get in the way of their decisions and their choices. They are the only ones in charge of their feelings and they keep their sentiments in check. They listen to their brains more than they listen to their minds. They never give in to their feelings of love just because they can’t hold themselves back, they know better.
5. They have their demands:
Women who are intelligent are also demanding. They will want the man they choose for themselves to be a certain way. They will not make compromises while choosing someone for themselves. They won’t push themselves into being okay with everything. They will analyze everything about that man before taking big and serious steps. Smart women will make sure their demands are being met.
6. They take time:
Intelligent women will take their time to open up to a man who has the potential to be their partner. They will not rush things. They will not make decisions about their love life in haste. They will wait it out till their heart and mind are ready to do what they think is right. They’re independent and never desperate for a partner so when an opportunity of dating or marrying someone comes their way, they won’t run for it and that’s something that doesn’t work too well with men. Men don’t like to be made to wait and they’re almost always looking for an immediate positive response, a yes but that isn’t how a smart woman works.
7. They don’t like to have their time wasted:
They don’t like playing games. They don’t being around a man who isn’t certain about what he wants. Who is playing them, who isn’t serious and who is downright wasting their time and energy. They want someone who like them, is mature and gets straight to the point and handle the situation with an understanding that is similar to their own.
8. They don’t try to hard:
Intelligent women won’t try too hard to find themselves someone to share their love with. They will make efforts but they’ll never act like they’re needy. Men like it when women chase them around and make it obvious that they’re totally down for dating them, they like when someone waits on them. But these women do not do that. They don’t chase men. They don’t try to convince or talk a man into dating them. They let the man take his own decision and it’s a no, they won’t insist, they’ll walk off.
It’s a challenge for such women to find for themselves a man who they are completely pleased with and who is their equal as a person which is why today, we see many, many intelligent and capable women single, but we know why it’s not as surprising as it may seem.
