Sometimes, when you are with a great woman, you don’t really realize just how great she is until you lose her. We are all guilty of doing that a lot in our lives. Whenever we get used to being treated so well by the people we love, we end up taking them for granted.
And whenever we take great people for granted, they end up leaving us because of how poorly we treat them. That is why you always have to be appreciative of a great woman while she’s still there. Because if she leaves you, you are definitely going to regret it. And if you doubt why you would regret a woman like her, then here are a few reasons to prove you otherwise.
1. She loved you more than anyone else ever could.
As you make your way through this life, you’re just going to have to deal with the fact that no girl is ever going to love you the same way that this girl loved you. You’re just going to have to be content with the fact that you are never going to be loved in the manner and degree that she loved you back when you were together. That doesn’t mean that you are unlovable. It’s just that you’re never going to get a chance to experience the same kind of love ever again.
2. She loved you without wanting anything in return.
You are going to miss how this girl loved you unconditionally. She really loved you so much to the point that it was unconditional. She loved you wholeheartedly. And she never really asked you for anything in return. She never made you feel like you had to love her in the same way. She never made you feel like you had to reciprocate that love towards her. She was hoping for it. But she never made you feel like you had to repay the love that she was so willing to give you.
3. She always made you feel like you could talk about anything with her.
She always made sure that you felt safe in expressing yourself. She always made sure that you felt like you could say whatever you want and she would never judge you for it. She never made you feel like she would hold anything you say against you. She always made sure that you felt safe to say whatever you wanted. She was an open receptacle for anything that you wanted to get off your chest.
4. She had a real connection with you that you can’t find with anyone else.
Having a real connection with a person is nothing like anything else in this world. And the sad part is that since it feels so natural and organic, you can take it for granted a lot. That is exactly what you did with her. The two of you had a real connection and you’re probably never going to find another girl who is going to connect with you in the same manner.
5. She always made sure that you had a lot of fun when you were together.
It was always a good time whenever you were together. And now, you realize it was always because she put so much effort into crafting a positive atmosphere for the two of you. She always wanted you to feel happy and comfortable.
She never made you feel bad whenever you screwed up back when you were with her. She was always acting so patient and understanding with you. She was always so kind towards you even when you were never the same to her. Whenever she committed a mistake, you were always so quick to hound her about it. You always made her feel like you held a grudge. You made her feel guilty. You used her mistakes as bargaining chips to make her do things for you out of guilt.
7. She made sure that all your needs were being met.
She was the kind of girl who always made sure that all of your needs were being met. She was always so willing to sacrifice her own needs just so yours were always being met. She was never afraid of putting your needs above her own.
8. Deep down, you know that she was the best girl you are ever going to have.
She was it. She was the best you could ever have. And she’s the best girl you will ever know. And you just let her go. You let her slip from your fingers. You lost your shot at making things work with her. You completely blew it. You are now going to have to either live a life without love or settle for someone who you know is never going to be as good as the girl who you let walk away. And you’re just forever going to regret missing out on an opportunity to spend the rest of your life with this woman.