People who have been through breakups in the past won’t be afraid to tell you – they’re just really difficult. When you get into a loving relationship with someone, you invest so much in that relationship. You try your best to make things work with one another but sometimes, it just isn’t in the cards for you. You might love one another, that’s for sure. But love alone isn’t enough to make a relationship work.
And you have to be mature enough to accept that. You can’t just be complacent in your relationship purely because you know that you and your partner are in love with one another. That’s a fairly quick way to get broken up with by your partner.
And going through breakups are never easy. They can be very difficult emotional ordeals that a vast majority of us won’t really be able to cope with in a healthy manner. But you know what makes breakups really difficult? It’s when you don’t see one coming. It’s when you’re blindsided by one. When you are anticipating a breakup in your relationship, there are a couple of things that you are able to do. Either you can try to save the relationship by fixing all of the problems that you know exist or you just brace yourself for the breakup which you know to be inevitable.
Either way, you get to prepare yourself for the hurt that is to come. But when you’re too stupid and blind to see that a breakup is imminent, the shock of it all is just going to wreck you when it does come. That’s why you always want to make it a point to be staying on top of your relationships. You want to make sure that you are reading your partner’s mood accurately at all times. If not, then you are effectively dooming yourself and your relationship as a whole.
Make sure to be on the lookout for the red flags that your partner is going to break up with you. If you feel lost and you don’t know how to go about that, the just continue to read on until the end of the article.
1. Think if he’s deliberately trying to avoid spending time with you.
He doesn’t want to be around you for one big reason: he’s trying to hide his displeasure with you and the relationship. He wants to figure out how he really feels without you.
2. Pay attention to the quality of your conversations.
How much is he opening himself up to you? How engaged is he when he’s talking to you?
3. Initiate physical intimacy with him and see his response.
Try to kiss him. Hug him. Hold his hand. If he seems unresponsive, then it’s likely that your partner is really falling out of love with you.
