Have you ever been put in the unfortunate situation of having a love that everyone seems to hate? Have you ever been cast in a “Romeo and Juliet” type of narrative where everyone seems to be against your relationship? Have you ever had a romance where it’s just the two of you against the world? Are you going through such an experience now and you feel lost? Do you feel like you don’t know what to do? If so, then this article is going to be perfect for you. By the time you finish reading this, you will gain a better perspective on things and a more profound understanding of what direction your relationship should be taking.
When you fall in love with someone, it’s a very personal and intimate process. And so naturally, you should always get the final say with regards to what you want to do with your love. No one else can tell you how to fall in love or who to fall in love with. You are always going to have to forge your own path in love and life. However, you also understand that love can be something that betrays you. You know that love can be very dangerous when you go into it blindly; and that’s why you ask for advice and opinions from the people around you.
You always want to hear from the people who care about you the most because you know that they always have your back and that they’re always looking out for your best interests. But how do you strike that balance? What if your heart is telling you one thing and your friends are telling you something else? What if what you really want is something that your friends are telling you is bad for you? That’s the dilemma here. And that’s what this article is going to try to answer.
Yes, you should always be willing to listen to what your loved ones have to say about your romantic life. You shouldn’t be so naïve and foolish to think that you’re ALWAYS going to get things right on your own. You shouldn’t be that proud. But there will also be times wherein you need to just put your foot down and act on your own feelings – especially when you know deep in your heart that what you’re doing is what is right for you. After all, it’s you who is going to have to live with the repercussions of your decision. It’s you who is going to have to fight and claw to make the relationship work.
It’s you who is going to have to go through everything to make sure that the love doesn’t go to waste. And so, it’s only right that you stand up for what you believe in. It’s right that you fight for your love. And how exactly do you know if you have a love that is worth fighting for in the first place? Well, that’s what this article is going to help you figure out. If a vast majority of the signs that are listed here actually apply to your partner, then it’s likely that you’re soulmates and that you’re just going to have to block out all of the external noise.
1. Your partner always shows up when you need them.
You have a partner who is always going to be there for you whenever you’re in need; someone who is there regardless if you ask them to be or not.
2. You and your partner have similar moral values and principles.
You are both compatible in the sense that you share the same essential principles and moral values in life.
3. Your partner genuinely tries hard to make your friends like them.
It’s not always a good fit; but if the effort is there, then that’s always a good sign to take note of.
4. Your partner has very high standards for themselves.
You have a partner who is never going to settle for mediocrity; someone who always wants to exceed their own expectations.
5. You aren’t blinding yourself to the flaws and red flags.
You know that you don’t have a perfect love; and you are making yourself perfectly aware of all the flaws that are present in your partner.
6. Your partner motivates you to pursue all of your dreams.
You have someone who really pushes you to be successful; someone who encourages you to be your own person and go after the life that you want.
7. Your partner inspires you to want to be a better person.
You have a partner who gives you a sense of purpose; a drive to want to be a better person.
8. Your instincts are telling you that this is the relationship for you.
At the end of the day, your instincts should be able to drown out all of the noise from the outside. If your guy says that this is for real, then it’s for real.