8 Things Married Men Wish Their Wives Would Do in Bed

When you’re married, figuring out how to make each other happy is like solving a cozy puzzle together. This journey is all about understanding what husbands secretly wish for without making it complicated. Think of it as a guide to making your time together more fun and love-filled.

We’ll talk about simple things like chatting openly and adding some surprises to make your moments even better. It’s like finding the right steps in the dance of love with your partner.

1. Express Your Needs

In the bedroom, husbands appreciate when their wives openly share their desires and preferences. It’s like having a roadmap to pleasure! Don’t be shy about expressing what makes you happy and, on the flip side, what you’d like more of. Communication is the key to unlocking a deeper connection and ensuring both partners are satisfied.

2. Take the Initiative Sometimes

Spice things up by taking charge from time to time. Surprise your man by initiating intimacy – it shows confidence and eagerness, making the experience more exciting for both. Remember, variety is the spice of life, and bedroom adventures are no exception. A little initiative goes a long way in keeping the spark alive.

3. Be Open to Exploration

Keep an open mind when it comes to trying new things in the bedroom. Exploring together can lead to discovering shared fantasies or preferences you never knew existed. Whether it’s a new position, a different setting, or introducing props, embracing variety can enhance intimacy and strengthen the bond between partners.

4. Pay Attention to Non-Verbal Cues

Sometimes, actions speak louder than words. Pay attention to your husband’s non-verbal cues during intimate moments. A gentle touch, a lingering kiss, or even subtle body language can convey a lot. Tuning in to these signals allows you to be more in sync with each other’s desires and ensures a more fulfilling and connected experience.

5. Show Appreciation and Affection

Express your love and appreciation not only through actions but also with words. Let your husband know what you love about him and why he makes your intimate moments special. A little verbal affection can boost confidence, strengthen emotional bonds, and create a positive and loving atmosphere in the bedroom.

6. Create a Comfortable Environment

The ambiance matters! Make your bedroom a comfortable and inviting space. Pay attention to lighting, music, or any other elements that enhance the mood. A cozy environment promotes relaxation, making it easier for both partners to let go of stress and fully enjoy the intimate connection you share.

7. Keep the Element of Surprise Alive

Inject an element of surprise into your intimate life. Whether it’s planning a spontaneous rendezvous or trying something unexpected, surprises can add excitement and anticipation. A touch of unpredictability can reignite the passion and keep things from becoming routine, fostering a sense of adventure in your relationship.

8. Prioritize Self-Care and Well-Being

Taking care of yourself positively influences your intimate life. Ensure you’re physically and mentally well, as this contributes to your overall happiness and confidence. When both partners prioritize self-care, they bring a more vibrant and positive energy to the relationship, creating a foundation for fulfilling and satisfying intimate moments.

Do you ever find yourself drawn to a guy for reasons you can’t quite explain? Perhaps you’ve felt attracted to someone you didn’t expect to be interested in. It’s all about the mysterious world of emotional reactions that we don’t consciously control, especially when it comes to romantic attraction. Falling in love is not a deliberate choice but more like getting thirsty; you don’t choose to be thirsty; you notice it, and the stronger the thirst, the harder it is to ignore. Just like women desire romance, men have an insatiable thirst for admiration, which they can’t openly express. This desire is crucial for sustaining their attraction, as men want to feel needed and like providers. To make him crazy about you, learn how to trigger his hero instinct, allowing him to earn your admiration and respect. By doing this, you’ll witness a transformation in his love, attention, and commitment, creating a lasting and fulfilling relationship.

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9 comments
  1. Really, I’m 5 feet weigh 110, have a good set of boob’s at 59 and a firm butt. Give and done lots of sexual request but not sharing each other with another man or woman. He is still stuck on porn. I feel cheated on.

    1. Then he is no good for you. He should be only be interested in you. A real man who got eyes on one women which is theirs partner

    2. OMG, why does this sound exactly like a clone of my life and what I’ve been dealing with for going on six years now 😔 when I first read your comment, my heart literally sank and I could literally feel my heart shatter all over again with the endless amount of pain that this problem constantly brings me in my everyday daily life and I just feel so sorry that you have to experience this as well❤️‍🩹 I dont currently have any helpful advice for this situation but I do think I’m gonna demand that mine go to an addiction specialist that works with that specific addiction and also trying couples therapy as well really soon! and if he isn’t ok with that then I guess that shows me where I truly stand because something has got to give… it isn’t fair to any of us to have to feel less than in a world that’s already ruined what true natural beauty really is and what real love actually means and stands for! head up 💪🗣️ stay strong hun, you got this! I’m rooting for you and all the other women out here that feel hopeless and not good enough.. just remember you are perfect the way you are and it’s not YOU, it’s THEM!!! ❤️❤️

  2. What if you have been married 27 yrs and he only wants fore play we haven’t had real sex in 15 yrs

    1. then you should sit down and have a serious heart to heart talk with your partner and express to them your wants/needs/desires because it isn’t fair that you aren’t satisfied nor pleased and if he truly loves you, I promise you he will be understanding and be willing to sacrifice change to please you ! I truly hope everything works out for you and if not , maybe this is life’s way of showing you that you didn’t mean as much to someone as you thought you did, either way, you have got to look out for yourself too!!!

  3. Wow I love this tips. I hope I won’t see myself here in future. Cause I’m still in a new relationship. So we always hungry for each other. Sex life we still want more and more of each other. But love this tips a lot thanks

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