You can rest easy now, this IS true love!
There’s something incredibly humbling about falling in love with someone. For the most part, it’s a great feeling, but it can also be frightening. You feel very vulnerable whenever you entrust your love unto someone. It’s terrifying to go through the perils of wondering whether you love another person more than you really should. Sometimes, it can get very difficult to tell whether your partner really loves you the way that you think.
It can get particularly difficult if your partner isn’t as expressive as you are with your love. That’s okay. It happens a lot. Fortunately for you, there are signs that you can look out for. You can take mental notes of simple gestures to know whether or not your partner is just as in love with you as you are with them.
Here are some signs that affirm your partner’s love for you:
1. They Put Their Trust In You
They trust you with their hearts. They allow themselves to be vulnerable around you because you’re worth the risk. They open themselves up to potential heartbreak because you do the same for them. You’re the most loving and caring person in their lives and they know you would never do anything to harm them. They let themselves loose whenever they are with you because they trust that you will always love them regardless of how they act.
2. They Ask You About Your Day
They are genuinely interested in finding out about how you spent your day. They like to feel included in your life. They include themselves in your narrative because you are a huge part of their lives. They feel heavily invested in who you are and how you feel as a human being, and they want to experience everything that you are experiencing also. They want to comfort you when you’re sad and they want to share your joy when you’re happy.В – Continue reading on the next page
3. They Are Intimate and Affectionate With You
They are comfortable with displays of affection and intimacy with you. It doesn’t have to be grand gestures like romantic kisses at the park in front of hundreds of people. It can be simple things like leaving thank-you notes or giving hugs before you leave for work. Little things like that can really brighten up anyone’s day and they always want you to know how much they love you. You could show your appreciation by doing the same too.
4. They Respect Who You Are As A Person
They don’t treat you like some project that they can change. They don’t want to diminish your dignity as a person because they know you value your individuality. They accept your flaws and love you despite them. They know of your imperfections, but you share a perfect love and that should be enough. They always push you to be the best version of yourself that you could possibly be, but they also respect that you have the final decision when it comes to deciding who you want to be as a person.
5. They Value Your Opinion Regarding Important Decisions
You are one of the most (if not the most) important people in their lives. Your thoughts and opinions matter greatly to them. They look forward to building a life around your relationship and so they want to include you in any important decision-making processes. You are a valued member of their lives, you’re practically an extension of who they are. No important decisions are ever going to be made without your consultation.В – Continue reading on the next page
6. They Value Any Time Spent With You
They understand that time and memories are valuable. They also know that time spent with you are just memories waiting to happen. Your love is unlike any other and it’s always a good time when you’re together. They don’t take that for granted and so they always make the most out of whenever you’re together. Those little dates that seem mundane and routine to you may mean the world to them. Know that they love you so much that any time with you is like a gift to them.
7. You Can Always Rely On Them
They’re a shoulder you can cry on. They’re a pedestal that you can step on. They’re a piece of the puzzle that completes your life. If you can always count on them to be there for you whenever you need them, then that is a good indication of their love for you. Don’t take that for granted at all. Appreciate their love and their reliability while it’s still there.
8. They Boost Your Confidence
They have this uncanny ability to make you more confident about who you are as a person. They give you that extra boost you need to get through life. They make you more comfortable in your own skin because of the love that they provide you. They make you feel like you’re the most important person in the world because to them, you are life itself.
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