8 Things That Happen To You When You Separate From Your Soulmate

Sometimes, you are going to find yourself at a point in your life wherein you will be forced to say goodbye to someone who means so much to you. You might have thought that you would spend the rest of your life with this individual. You might have believed that this is the person who brought a sense of completion, meaning, and fulfillment to your life. This person might be your missing piece or your other half.

You might call this person your soulmate.

Your relationship with this person is as special as any relationship could possibly get. You just really found a way to connect with one another in a very deep and intimate level. You understand just how special and intense of a connection the two of you have with one another. You were certain that you had a kind of bond that you would never be able to share with other people.

This soulmate relationship is deeper than anything you have ever had the privilege of experiencing in your entire life. You know for certain that this isn’t a run of the mill kind of relationship at all.

However, what you failed to realize is that not all soulmate relationships are meant to last forever. Sometimes, a soulmate is going to have to walk away from you. Sometimes, you are going to have to say goodbye to this person who has grown to become such an integral part of your life. And it can happen for any number of reasons.

Maybe the two of you just met at the wrong point in your life’s timeline and so that’s why everything feels so out of sync. Maybe something happened which was beyond your control and it ended up having to drive the two of you apart. Regardless of the reason, it always hurts to say goodbye to a soulmate. It always hurts to have to detach yourself from your other half.

There might not really be anything that you can do to make you immune to the pain of losing your soulmate. However, you can always brace yourself for the experience by reading up on what to expect for when it happens. The more you know, then possibly, the better you will be able to handle it when it comes for you. Here are 8 things that happen to you when you separate from your soulmate.

1. You will become the person you’ve never met before.

You will emerge out of this experience a completely different person than you were before. This is the kind of ordeal that can fundamentally alter the foundations of a person’s character. You will not feel the same because an important part of what made you who you are is no longer with you.

2. You will have to bear with feeling an immense amount of pain.

You will never have known pain like this in your entire life. It’s a kind of pain that is entirely unique on its own. It’s the kind of pain that you would never be able to replicate. And it’s the kind of pain you would never want to go through ever again.

3. You will have a new philosophy of love as a whole.

You’re going to have a renewed outlook on love and life. Your disposition and your philosophy are going to change. Your expectations are going to be different this time around.

4. You will feel like you are merely surviving but not living.

You will begin to feel like you are still getting along in life but you won’t necessarily feel like you are living. You’re just coasting and going with the flow.

5. You will end up becoming strangers.

Once you cut ties with a soulmate, there is just no way that the two of you could ever go back to being friends. You are going to feel cheated if you do so. And it would hurt the two of you way too much.

6. You will find yourself still thinking of them regardless of the time that has passed.

It doesn’t matter how long it will have been, you are still going to find yourself thinking of them every once in a while.

7. You will move on in your life because you have no other choice.

You are just going to move on with your life because you really don’t have any other choice. You won’t allow yourself to just watch the entire world pass you by purely because your soulmate is no longer with you. It will hurt, but you’ll keep going on.

8. You will find love once more but it will be different.

You are still going to find love again in your life. You are definitely going to be able to find love with someone else and you really shouldn’t have to worry about that. However, it’s not going to be the same.

  1. I’m going through this at the moment, we were together 30 years. I honestly thought that we would die together. The problem is he had been having an affair for the past 10 years. This wasn’t his first affair , and probably not his last. I’m finished with him. I realized he had been lying to me the duration of our marriage. My whole world has been shattered. I find myself not trusting anyone anymore. I’ve become withdrawn, my daughter is worried about my mental health. I just want to be left alone. I feel I need time alone to find out who I am. Is this normal?

    1. i’m so sorry to hear that. i am going through something similar instead we were high school sweethearts and looking into marriage. i feel sad and i keep wanting to contact him but i know it’s better that i don’t.

  2. I made to many mistakes and the love of my life left and can’t forgive me. No infidelity, just dumb mistakes. I’ve apologized and tried to make things right but her walls are so thick and high she doesn’t ever want to let me in again. I will NEVER find a love like her. She was so unique. I’m lost without her.

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