Men, how many of you have heard these famous lines?
Men can be such idiots sometimes. As a man, you have to admit that your pride can get the best of you a lot. You tend to hype yourself up to be this manly, macho, omnipotent being who is capable of landing any girl in the world. While you may have some redeeming qualities, it’s far from the truth that all girls in the world will automatically be attracted to you. Whenever you’re courting a woman, you have a tendency to force the issue a lot of the time.
You think that with enough persistence, you can have any girl eating out of the palm of your hand. The truth is that not every woman is going to want to be with you, and you have to learn how to accept that fact. Yes, it’s true. Some women can have their defenses worn down over time if you manage to put in the work and effort. However, there are some women who will just flat-out not like you. Whenever you encounter such a woman, don’t go and try fitting a circle into a square hole. You’re only asking for trouble when you do that. Learn to take no for an answer and move on. Rejection doesn’t always have to be so bad.
If you’re the oblivious kind of man whose pride has completely blinded him from the truth, then you need to start getting enlightened. A woman will give off signals if she’s ever interested in you the same way she will leave you signs to tell you to bug off. Here are some things that these girls say to get guys off of their tail.
1. I’m in a relationship right now.
This is the most common excuse that girls will give whenever they want to turn guys away. Of course, if she’s lying, you should take it as a hint that she’s really not interested in dating you to the point where she’s making up an imaginary boyfriend to scare you away. If she’s telling the truth, then she REALLY isn’t interested in you at all and you might as well walk away before you start complicating things.
2. I think we’re better off as friends.
She’s putting you in the friend zone and you best believe that getting out of the friend zone is a feat rarely accomplished by even the strongest of men. She’s flat out not interested in you and if you ever want to keep her in your life, then you better take the deal of being just friends. Otherwise, you will just end up driving her away with your relentless creepiness.В – Continue reading on the next page
3. I’m really not ready to date anyone right now.
This may be true or it may not be true, but either way, she’s saying that she really isn’t interested in you. She might as well be wearing a huge sign on her forehead saying I’m not into you just to keep you at bay. If it is true, then maybe it would help for you to just be patient. Stop pestering her and just wait for her to be ready. She’ll let you know when the time comes and whether she’s interested. For now, just go on and continue living your life as you were.
4. You deserve a better person to be with.
She’s deflecting. The best way to get rid of you is to divert your attention elsewhere. She’s obviously not interested in having you play an important role in her life and so she’s trying to deflect you unto someone else. She doesn’t like it when you’re giving her too much attention, and so she’ll try to downplay her qualities as much as possible in the hopes that you get turned off.
5. There are too many things going on in my life right now.
She’s too busy. Perhaps being in a relationship is the farthest thing from her mind right now. She could be too focused on her career or her studies to be dating someone right now. If you were really a guy she was interested in dating, then she would make time for you. But sad to say, you aren’t a guy that’s sweeping her off her feet. Just accept the defeat and move on.В – Continue reading on the next page
6. I didn’t notice your messages.
If you’ve been leaving her text messages on her phone and on social media, then that is a blatant expression of interest on your part. If she hasn’t been responding to any of them, then that is a blatant expression of disinterest in her part. She just doesn’t want any piece of you, and it should be obvious by now. Obviously, she got your messages and she merely chose to ignore them.
7. I don’t look at us in that way.
This is her being honest and she’s trying to let you down easily. What she’s saying here is that she’s still open to the idea of having you in her life, but she really isn’t interesting in taking things to a romantic level.
8. Now just isn’t the best time.
She blames time. She doesn’t want to take the blame for not being interested in you because maybe it would make her feel a little too guilty. And so she resorts to blaming the unfortunate nature of your circumstances. When she tells you this, maybe you should just swallow your pride and walk away.
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Men, can you relate to this? Let me know in the comments below!
Okay. Let’s be “girlfriends”, sharing our angst-ridden issues.
I just met someone at the church community. She is studying and I knew she is not gonna say yes to a date.
She simply responded: Our connection is not more than a church member, and with the situation I’m in I don’t want to go further in this connection.
Thank you for that you understand.
Door slam😆.
She doesn’t even see me as a friend and she is not available for me, situation means me which she won’t be part of it.
She is a good girl 24 and I’m 30. The sad part they don’t see the worth of you now but later in life, the happy part would be courage to ask her out.