When you get a girlfriend, it can seem like it’s the most amazing thing ever. You will be so caught up with how great and wonderful everything is going to feel. However, that can be a problem if there are certain red flags that you will become blind to as a result of the love and affection that you feel. You must always make it a point to spot out the signs of a bad girlfriend.
When you first get into a relationship with someone, there will be a tendency for you to have rose-colored lenses. That means that you’re going to end up seeing only the beautiful aspects of your relationship and not the bad parts. But that should be fine if it’s only the little things. For instance, if your girl has a tendency to snore while she’s asleep, that shouldn’t be a deal-breaker in a relationship. It shouldn’t matter much to you.
But it becomes a problem when she has a very destructive personality that could potentially derail your relationship. She might even be so toxic to the point that the quality of your own life gets compromised.
You need to be able to make that delineation. You need to be able to differentiate between having a girlfriend who only has a few minor flaws and a girlfriend whose personality is so terrible that you end up becoming a worse person as a result of being around her.
And also, it would be really difficult to sustain a relationship with a bad girlfriend. Why? Because she wouldn’t have the traits and personality necessary to actually make a relationship work with anyone.
But how do you know? How are you able to tell? What signs do you need to be looking out for? Where exactly do you need to be looking at in order for you to find out if you’re meant to be in a relationship with a girl or not? Well, the signs are going to be listed here.
1. You aren’t happy as a result of being with her.
You aren’t really happy in your life anymore. You thought that being with her would bring happiness in your life. However, you’ve found that your life is just so much worse now. A relationship shouldn’t be your sole source of happiness in your life. But it shouldn’t be what is keeping you from being happy either.
2. Your friends and family tell you that she’s bad news.
Of course, when you get into a relationship with someone, you always want to make sure that you do so on your own volition. You never want to be living a life for other people. You never want to be letting others dictate how you conduct your love life. But you can’t be completely deaf to the warnings and cautions that they might give you.