If only the world of dating came with some kind of guidebook to help you out along the way. Sometimes, having to navigate the dating world can just be too difficult and overwhelming. It’s especially difficult when you’re trying to figure out how another person might feel about you. None of us are going to be mind-readers and so we’re never really going to be able to know for sure whether another person is truly interested in us. However, that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t be making an effort to actually read the signs. If you pay close attention, you can pick up a few subtle clues that she really has feelings for you – the intimate kind.
You’ve probably been exposed to so many movies and TV shows that really seek to highlight the stark differences in the behaviors between men and women. And these stereotypes are perpetuated everywhere you turn in contemporary popular media. However, sometimes, a lot of them can be very deceiving. You don’t want to be equipping yourself with a false or invalid situation when it comes to relationships. Otherwise, you miss out on being with the person you’re truly meant to be with.
All human beings are just natural communicators. We are all programmed to communicate our feelings whether we do so consciously or not. There’s just no masking how you really feel about someone especially to the most trained and attentive eyes. That’s why you shouldn’t dismiss the idea of being able to read a woman based on how she behaves and conducts herself. A lot of her signals are being communicated to you on a very subtle and subconscious manner. If you make an effort to seek them out, then you would be able to tell whether she’s sexually attracted to you or not.
We are all sexual creatures after all. And we are always going to tend to show interest in the people we are sexually attracted to. And if you arm yourself with all the right knowledge that you need to decipher her feelings, then you’re going to do just fine. If you are ignorant to these signs, however, then they might just go right over your head. And if that’s what really happens, then what a waste it would be.
If you’re looking to make a move on a girl, but you’re not sure about your chances, then just refer to this list. If you see that a majority of the things that are listed here actually apply to how she behaves around you, then you have higher chances than you might think. Go ahead and make your move. Approach her with the right amount of confidence and humility. Be yourself and you’ll probably have her in your bedroom in no time.
1. She can’t keep her eyes off you.
The eyes are the windows to the soul, as they say. And it really says a lot whenever you find her eyes locked on yours a lot.
2. She plays with her hair when she’s around you.
When a girl plays with her hair, that is one of the most blatant signs that she is definitely interested in you – and not just in a friendly way either.
3. She looks for you during social gatherings.
She really seems comfortable with you even when she can choose to hang out with just about anyone else in large social gatherings. She always chooses to be with you above all the rest.
4. She lets herself get physically close to you.
She allows herself to get close to you on a physical plane because she is literally trying to bridge the physical gap between the two of you.
5. She is constantly touching you.
She is showing you that she isn’t afraid of having a very physical relationship with you. She’s choosing to interact with you in a very physically intimate manner. She’s establishing a certain sense of comfort with you.
6. She has a very welcoming body language.
Whenever you’re together and she always makes it a point to have no obstructions between the two of you, then she’s into you. You should take that as a cue that she’s inviting you in.
7. She acts self-conscious when she’s around you.
She lets her insecurities and self-esteem issues show whenever she’s with you. She tries to really be mindful of the kind of impression that she is giving off on you.
8. She asks other people about you.
She’s asking around about you. She’s really interested in you and she’s trying to gather as much information as she possibly can about you.
9. She actually makes the first move.
And lastly, you know that she wants you badly when she actually musters up the courage to be the one who makes the first move with you. This is your chance! Don’t miss out on this opportunity.