A good girl is very much hard to find these days. And that’s why if you are lucky enough to land for yourself a quality woman who is worth holding on to, then you have to do everything in your power to never let her go. There are just far too many men out there who are clueless about women. And it’s the cluelessness that leaves them to take their relationships for granted. Men and women are always going to function differently; that’s just a plain fact. But that shouldn’t stop any man from trying his best to get to know his girl better. He has to know what works and what doesn’t with her. He must always make it a point to conduct himself with grace and purpose in his relationship. Otherwise, he risks losing a great girl.
Now, all women are different. And there is no universal guidebook on how to make every woman in the world happy. Life doesn’t come with a user manual after all. Relationships don’t come with a set of instructions. We have to figure things out as we go. But that doesn’t mean that you should just be recklessly conducting yourself in your relationship. Every word that you say and every gesture that you make has an impact on your partner – and you must always try to make sure that it’s a positive one. If you have a girl who is worth keeping, you can’t take her for granted.
You might not always know what’s on your woman’s mind. She can be really fickle-minded and unclear a lot of times. And that might lead you to feel a little insecure about your place in her world. But don’t worry; if you’re doing a lot of the things that are actually listed on here, then you’re probably doing a good job at being her man. Here are definite reasons she would never leave you for another man:
1. You always stay honest with her even when it gets you into trouble.
You always value her trust and you always respect her enough to know that she deserves the truth from you at all times – even when it gets you into trouble. You never betray her by lying to her. You never make her feel like she has reason to doubt you.
2. You keep your feelings and emotions in check.
You don’t get overwhelmed by rage or anxiety. You always keep a level head. You don’t blow the lid whenever she makes a mistake. You are always so calm and collected.
3. You are always willing to adjust and compromise for her.
You show her that you aren’t selfish and that you are willing to do whatever it takes to meet her needs as well. You prove to her that she’s a girl who can really count on you to meet her halfway on anything for the sake of the relationship.
4. You keep things interesting and fresh all the time in your relationship.
You are constantly finding ways to keep the passion and intimacy in your relationship alive. You aren’t content with merely being her man. You always want to make sure that your relationship is consistently growing and evolving.
5. You make her feel like she’s always free to express herself.
You always give her the space to express herself however she sees fit. You never make her feel like her opinion doesn’t matter or that her feelings are invalid.
6. You don’t act overly dependent on her or the relationship.
She respects the fact that you are still your own person. She knows that you still have your own life that you live to the fullest. You don’t place too much pressure on her or on the relationship to give you a sense of fulfilment or meaning. You are independent and you give your relationship room to breathe and come into its own.
7. You allow yourself to become vulnerable with her.
You show her that you trust her enough by allowing yourself to be vulnerable with her. You open yourself up to her even though it means that you are giving her power over you. You are opening yourself up to getting hurt by her; and she genuinely appreciates your willingness to do so.
8. You make it a point to spend lots of time with her.
The more time you spend on a person, then the more that that person knows how much you value them. And if you’re constantly spending lots of time with her, then she knows deep in her heart that you consider her to be a person of utmost importance to you.
9. You support her with her goals and dreams.
You don’t serve as a roadblock. Instead, you push her towards everything that she wants to get done in life. You respect the fact that she is ambitious; and you don’t do anything that holds her back from becoming who she wants to be.