What exactly do you have to do to make her miss you? How do you have to act? What tricks can you pull to make her want you even when you’re not there? When you are in a relationship with someone, you always want your partner to miss you whenever you’re not together. It’s part of human nature. You know that you feel more wanted when you have someone who misses your presence. And if you have a partner who misses you, then you know that you really have someone who really wouldn’t want to have to deal with your absence; someone who will want you around all of the time.
Now, your partner could miss you sometimes, all of the time, or none of the time. That all really depends on who you are as a couple and what your relationship is like. But if you feel like you want to be putting yourself in the best position for your partner to miss you, then this is the article for you. There are some very specific secret tips that you could follow to make your partner miss you whenever you’re not together.
1. Be a little stoic and mysterious with her.
You don’t want to be too revealing about your personality. You don’t want to be bombarding her with data and information about your life on one single go. Be like an onion. Have layers. She has to be able to peel you away more and more every time that you’re with one another. The more mysterious and stoic you are, the more curious she’s going to be. And she will be thinking a lot about you when you’re not together.
2. Just because you can text her whenever you want doesn’t mean that you should.
Technology is a great thing. It has practically given you the power to text her whenever you want; to communicate with her even when you’re not in the same place. But again, just because you can doesn’t mean that you should. If you keep texting her, you are depriving her of the chance to miss you; and you are also running the risk of using up all talking points that you should be reserving for real-life communication.
3. Don’t be around her all of the time.
How do you expect her to miss you if you’re just going to be around her all of the time? Remember that absence makes the heart grow fonder. And if you really want her to value your presence, you’re going to want o give her the chance to actually experience your absence. So, you shouldn’t be spending ALL of your time with her. You don’t want to end up suffocating her as well.
4. Make sure that she has lots of fun whenever you’re together.
The more fun that she has whenever you’re together, then the more that she’s going to miss you when you’re not around. She’s going to feel just how bland life is without you if you manage to show her a great time when you are around each other. So do your best to make every moment with her a genuine experience that she enjoys.
5. Don’t act so desperate to talk to her all of the time.
Don’t give in to that desperation of just wanting to talk to her every single chance you get. It can be really easy to fall into that trap when you’re just starting to date one another. But you should hold back. You shouldn’t be so overeager. You don’t want to end up driving her away with how forward you are. Be chill about it.
6. Don’t give in to the urge to stalk her whereabouts.
Let her live her own life. Respect her privacy and individuality. If you’re constantly stalking her and trying to run into her “accidentally”, then you’re just going to creep her out. Give her space and meet her whenever she’s only available to meet you.
7. Take things really slowly in the relationship.
Don’t rush her. Take your time. Let her go on a pace that she’s comfortable with; and she’s really going to appreciate you for it.
8. Devote time to doing the things that you love and are passionate about.
You can’t be spending ALL of your time on the relationship. That’s only going to make you very uninteresting. When you devote more time to other aspects of your life, you are showing her that you have an interesting life; and she’s going to want to fight to be a part of that world.
9. Always make sure that she can rely on you.
The more that she is able to rely on you for various things in life, then the more she is really going to feel your absence whenever you’re not around. Dependence and reliance is something that develops throughout the length of a relationship. And it’s okay for her to depend on you a little bit. It shows that you have much value to her.