Let’s face it. There are just so many men out there who are sex-obsessed, and they can often see women as mere objects of pleasure as opposed to genuine human beings with feelings and emotions. And you never want to end up being in a relationship with a guy like that. You want whoever you fall in love with to be a person who wants to be with you for who you are; and not just what you can do in the bedroom. However, so many guys are just so good at lying about their intentions. So many guys are so good at deceiving women and masking their disgusting intentions with fake sincerity. And that’s why you have to be really careful. You have to make sure that you are only ever really giving your love to those who are worthy of it; to those who aren’t looking to play around with you.
But how do you know? How can you tell me exactly? How can you make sure that you are able to deter these kinds of men from pulling their tricks on you? Well, you can protect yourself by making sure that you are only ever opening up to the right kinds of guys. If you see that the man that you’re with has less than noble attention, then you need to be able to turn away. You have to make sure that your bull crap radar is on point; that you are able to weed out the bad boys. Here are a few signs that the man that you’re with is only ever really interested in the sex.
1. He only ever compliments you on your looks.
He doesn’t really notice much about you other than how you look. He doesn’t really compliment you on your personality; on your work ethic or resilience. He doesn’t talk about your sensitivity, emotionality, or your empathy. He is always just taking notice of how you look. Anything beyond that doesn’t really interest him.
2. He always incorporates sex into his conversations with you.
Somehow, he can’t seem to have any serious conversations with you without incorporating sex or innuendo in it. He’s always just so effervescent and capricious whenever he deals with you. You feel like he always has sex on his mind, and that’s because he sees you as nothing more than a sexual object.
3. He has a tendency to send you a lot of dirty texts and messages.
He’s constantly trying to get you in the mood. Yes, it’s important to keep the passion and intensity in a relationship alive. It’s always nice to be playful with your partner. However, it’s a different thing entirely when it seems to be the only thing that he is capable of talking about when he’s with you.
4. The only dates you ever have are at home with delivery pizza.
He doesn’t take you out on real dates because his feelings for you aren’t real at all. He’s not invested in having a relationship with you. He just wants to be able to hook up with you whenever he wants. And it’s easier when you’re both already at home.
5. He gets upset whenever you refuse to have sex with him.
He should always be respectful of your body. And if you’re not in the mood for sex, he has no right to be imposing his will on you.
6. He rushes through foreplay.
He doesn’t care much about the buildup. He doesn’t care much about pleasing you. He doesn’t care much about the entire process as a whole. He just wants to get things over with and then leave. He wants to go straight to the point because he doesn’t really see any other purpose with you.
7. He goes straight to the bedroom whenever he gets to your place.
No talking. No eating. No bonding. It’s all sex. The moment he arrives at your place, he automatically heads straight for your bedroom because that’s really the only place he ever wants to be interacting with you. He just wants to have sex; and nothing else.
8. He leaves right after sex.
The mission has been accomplished. The task has been completed. He has gotten everything over with and now it’s time for him to leave. You know that he is ONLY in it for the sex if he just bolts right after he does the deed. He doesn’t want to engage in pillow talk at all.
9. Most of his late-night texts are just booty calls.
It would be so great if you had a boyfriend who texted you late at night to tell you goodnight just before he drifts off into dreamland. Or maybe he’s interested in knowing about how your day went. But it would be so sad if all the late-night texts from your boyfriend are booty calls. It just goes to show that his heart isn’t really in the right place.