Let’s face it. There are just so many men out there who are sex-obsessed, and they can often see women as mere objects of pleasure as opposed to genuine human beings with feelings and emotions. And you never want to be in a relationship with a guy like that. You want whoever you fall in love with to be a person who wants to be with you for who you are and not just what you can do in the bedroom.
However, so many guys are just so good at lying about their intentions. So many guys are so good at deceiving women and masking their disgusting intentions with fake sincerity. And that’s why you have to be careful. You have to ensure that you are only ever giving your love to those who are worthy of it, to those who aren’t looking to play around with you.
But how do you know? How can you tell me exactly? How can you ensure that you can deter these kinds of men from pulling their tricks on you? You can protect yourself by ensuring you only open up to the right kinds of guys. If you see that the man you’re with has less than noble attention, you need to be able to turn away.
You have to make sure that your bull crap radar is on point; that you can weed out the bad boys. Here are a few signs that the man you’re with is only ever interested in the sex.
1. He only ever compliments you on your looks.
He doesn’t notice much about you other than how you look. He doesn’t compliment you on your personality, your work ethic, or your resilience. He doesn’t talk about your sensitivity, emotionality, or your empathy. He is always just taking notice of how you look. Anything beyond that doesn’t interest him.
2. He always incorporates sex into his conversations with you.
Somehow, he can’t seem to have any serious conversations with you without incorporating sex or innuendo. He’s always just so effervescent and capricious whenever he deals with you. You feel like he always has sex on his mind, and that’s because he sees you as nothing more than a sexual object.
3. He tends to send you many dirty texts and messages.
He’s constantly trying to get you in the mood. Yes, keeping the passion and intensity in a relationship alive is important. It’s always nice to be playful with your partner. However, it’s entirely different when it seems to be the only thing he can talk about when he’s with you.
4. The only dates you have are at home with delivery pizza.
He doesn’t take you out on real dates because his feelings for you aren’t real. He’s not invested in having a relationship with you. He just wants to hook up with you whenever he wants. And it’s easier when you’re both already at home.