I have learned that no matter how many tips, tricks, or lessons you might read about having great sex, nothing is ever going to beat the sex you will have with that one special person who you’re meant to be with. A lot of what goes into the quality of your sex life relies on the chemistry and compatibility that you have with your partner. And there are definitely some sure ways that you are able to tell when you and your partner just have great sexual chemistry. And that chemistry can be evident even when you don’t really try for it to be that way.
These days, more and more people are very liberal about having sex in relationships even before marriage. It’s not like the old days where that was a really big deal to a lot of people. Now, not to say that there is something wrong with waiting to get married until you do it for the first time; but there is some inherent value in being able to figure out your sexual chemistry with a person before you actually commit to them. Yes, you can be in a relationship with a seemingly great guy who treats you well and does right by you; but at the end of the day, sex is going to play a big role in sustaining the passion and romance in your relationship. So when the sex is mediocre, you are putting your relationship at a huge risk.
So what is it that makes two people sexually compatible with one another? How can you ensue that you and your partner really have strong sexual chemistry? Why is it that there are just some people you perform better in the bedroom with when compared with others? Well, in order for you to gain better perspective on this matter, you’re going to have to read this article in its entirety. At the very least, it’s going to help widen your perspective on what it means to have great sexual chemistry with someone.
1. The sex is very fun and easy.
You know that you have great sexual chemistry if you and your partner are constantly having a good time. You don’t put too much pressure on yourselves. You don’t take the sex too seriously. You know that at the end of the day, it’s a manifestation of your love. And it shouldn’t have to be anything more than that.
2. You are both able to stimulate one another.
You both find ways to stimulate one another. It’s never about pure self-stimulation with the two of you. You both make a concerted effort to turn each other on.
3. You both enjoy foreplay.
You know that you both have great sexual chemistry if you don’t really want to rush the process. You know that foreplay is part of the whole experience. You know that the build-up is just as important as the climax. And you always make sure to put time into foreplay because it enriches the experience as a whole.