If your husband has fallen out of love with you, is that information that you would want to know?
The answer is yes.
You might think that ignorance is bliss but you would never want to be in a relationship that’s built on one-sided love. In any kind of functioning long-term relationship, it’s absolutely essential that two people stay loyal and committed to the idea of loving one another. And whenever one party falls out of love, it can make for a very toxic and dysfunctional relationship atmosphere.
When you get married, you vow to always love one another and stay committed to each other. However, sometimes, people can fall short in living up to these vows and promises. Your husband isn’t perfect and he isn’t always going to be able to give you that perfect love. Sometimes, in the most extreme cases, your husband might even fall out of love with you entirely.
As difficult an idea as that might be to ponder on, it’s a possibility that you’re going to have to make yourself aware of. If your partner happens to fall in love with you, you have two choices here: it’s either you do whatever you can to try to win his love back or you just choose to let him go entirely. But obviously, the key is in determining whether he has fallen in love with you or not. And that isn’t always going to be so simple.
Sometimes, your love for him can leave you blind to all the things that you should be keeping a close eye on. You might not be seeing all the sings that he’s lost his love for you and that’s not something that you would want to be oblivious to. If your husband is guilty of a lot of the stuff listed here, then chances are that he’s fallen out of love with you. And you need to do something about it.
1. He always blames you for the problems in the marriage.
It’s as if he’s virtually refused to take any sort of responsibility in your relationship whatsoever. He’s always content on just blaming you.
2. He refuses to engage in proper communication with you.
He doesn’t really engage in any legitimate forms of communication with you. Whenever you try to talk to him, he seems content with giving you one-word replies.
3. He doesn’t give you gifts on special dates and occasions.
He doesn’t seem to value the important dates and occasions in your relationship anymore such as birthdays and anniversaries.
4. He always forces you to make sacrifices and compromises.
He is constantly pushing you to be the one to make all of the sacrifices in the relationship. But he doesn’t really try to meet you halfway.
5. He criticizes you for the sake of making you feel bad.
He criticizes the hell out of you for the reason of just wanting to make you feel bad. He has no interest in bettering you as a human being anymore. He just wants you to be aware of your flaws and mistakes.
6. He doesn’t make an effort to contact you whenever you’re apart.
He doesn’t call or text you whenever you spend time apart from one another. It’s as if he relishes the time he gets to spend away from you.
7. He doesn’t get physically intimate with you anymore.
He doesn’t make an effort to get physically intimate with you. The hugs, kisses, and cuddles are few and far between at this point.
8. He doesn’t express gratitude or appreciation for your efforts.
He doesn’t really try to make you feel validated or appreciated for all of the efforts that you’re still trying to put into the marriage and relationship.
9. He doesn’t listen to you or pay attention to you.
He doesn’t make you feel welcome to express yourself because he has closed himself from you entirely. He doesn’t want to listen or pay attention to whatever you might have to say to him.
FINAL THOUGHTS
If you find that your husband is guilty of a lot of the things listed above, you don’t have to click on the panic button just yet. Your relationship isn’t necessarily doomed. Remember that so as long as the two of you are willing to work your way through your troubles, you always have a shot at making the relationship last.
But if it gets to a point wherein your marriage becomes irreparable, then it might be time for you to consider the possibility of just ending things and going your separate ways. It’s not right to try to force a relationship when it clearly isn’t working out the way that it should. Sometimes, love just doesn’t work out the way that you expect it to.
That’s very 😞!!!!
Yup and I left
I’m gathering the strength to leave at this point.
I have no money and nowhere to go…that’s the problem
I’m ready.! Where do I go, plus no family and don’t have any money .! 😪😢
Same here…
Girl me too I want to leave so bad but I don’t got nowhere to go I thought I was alone out hete
same here…😥😥😥
me and my ex
This things I see them in my marriage, but I put God first let his will be done and take a greater control over me.
amen 🙏🏼
i do agree with you…
God Bless You 🙌🏼
♥︎GIVE TO GOD, & REST ASSURED & TRUST THE PATH HE IS LEADING YOU DOWN!♥︎
♥︎GOD WILL NOT PUT ANYTHUNG ON YOUR PLATE, THAT IS TOO HEAVY OR TOO MUCH FOR YOU TO MAKE IT THROUGH OR HANDLE!♥︎
(NEVER last and NEVER least)…
♥︎°•.★ THIS TOO SHALL PASS! *^_^*★.•°♥︎
This happens to me lately..He always says that he is the one supporting us and im just only a housewife and a nobody when he leave us.Thats the part that im hurt the most. He is not in his position if my mom never help us were we are ryt now.
this is me right now. though we are both working, I’m a dentist and he’s a seafarer. we have 1 child (1 year old). i don’t know what to do. I’m stuck between i want to save this family and I’m so hurt and degraded by him.
Hello
After a child the boys not man but boys are drifting away…they have to face themself and their responsabilities… they can’t play anymore! so you need to find help for both of you to face who you are because the child make you face the child in you too…and all the hurts and wounds will araise! it is very hard to be parents but it worth too! Need help with a couple course or something… pray God to guide you…
very tumpak ito ang nangyayari sakin ngayon…
missing some things that’s for sure.
+turns everything into an argument and makes you feel bad that he’s taking the blame as he’s shouting at you “yeah it’s all my fault”
+he yells at you and then tells you he’s not yelling he was raising his voice.
+always leaves when you come home.
+won’t help you when you ask
+won’t take care of your kids
+won’t take care of you when you’re sick
+let you work 40 hrs a week to come home to cook and clean and do all the after school activities but demands sexual attending when you’re exhausted and spent. then gets mad over it.
+ is sexting other women even his boss
+ doesn’t make time for you or the kids always someone else needs his attention
+ threatens to leave takeing all your hard earned money and the two kids of the five he had with you.
+chooses drugs instead his family’s needs
+steals money from you and blames the kids
+and when you tell him its over it literally takes him less and a week to hook up with someone else and move out asap. but still acts like he was so devastated while telling you he’s happy and moved on.
YOU feel some of these situations are happening, there are things to test it. Like make him jealous or take on positive friendships or work on your self, sometimes we give up on ourselves and it can cause self esteem problems.
yeah me too and it’s so heart breaking. he was my everything.
but as hard as it is and how much it hurts .
girls lift your heads up cuz your , beautiful Ladies and we don’t need them and there bullshit. right,I found that the only man we needed in our lives if Jesus and God will heal us..
my husband is a narcissist and sounds like so are yours..
sorry dvdfyond of you had to go through this kind of treatment.
seek Jesus and you’ll be fine
I promise
i truly do not believe, in my case, that i could go through yet another failed relationship, due to lack of Loyalty, Faithfulness, and Honesty on his end in my first marriage… and i do NOT want ANOTHER Divorce, only this time due to lack of COMMUNICATION, on his end, along with TRUST ISSUES, on my end!
THOSE ISSUES CAN BE WORKED ON IF ★BOTH PARTIES★ are willing to make the effort and do WHATEVER it is that will help solve these issues!
Lemme tell ya, my husband (5yrs married, 10yrs together total) has a ✔️ beside EVERY ONE (9) OF THOSE SIGNS… EVERY SINGLE ONE! But here i am still trying to speak to him, still trying to figure out where i went wrong!!!
Been there ….and stayed….had 4 kids and no Jobs and no money by my self……
Got my education and job….but had no courage to go…..So I am still there and now he is old and sick …
But … we have a wonderful big family….
He “gave” me a 45 years daughter at our 50 years anniversary of married….. that he had with our babysitter, ( my aunt) and she had husband and 3 kids then…..
I didnt left then either…….
too old….
we do all this shit to each other from time to time & we’re still in love