We all want to find the perfect soul mate, I have indeed found my Ms. Right, and after a lot of heartbreaks too, it’s not easy finding someone who’s just made for you. A lot of you will say that there is no such thing as a perfect partner, but the right person does exist for you.
Here are nine signs you’ve found Mr. Right.
1. He’s genuinely interested in your life
When a man cares about you with a pure heart, he will be very interested in your life, he will pay a healthy level of attention to your goals and your dreams, and he will always support you throughout your endeavors. He will whole-heartedly listen to you when you discuss something about your life, and you will never feel like you’re boring him, or he’s not interested.
When a man loves you, he loves you for everything you represent. He loves your habits, he loves your friends, he loves your flaws and your weaknesses, and he loves your life and is always interested in what you’re doing and where you’re headed in life.
2. You feel safe around him
A man who truly loves you will always protect you from the harms of the world. You will still feel safe around him, and you’ll feel like as long as he’s with you, nothing can go wrong, and he’ll take care of things. This blind trust is only achieved when your man truly loves you with all of his heart and soul, the level of care and trust he gives you is enough for you to feel at ease around him.
When my girlfriend is with me, I make sure I do everything to make her smile, I make sure I make her feel protected with all of my power, that’s what true love and care are.
3. You feel cherished
A man who truly loves you will make you feel cherished, he will give you so much importance and value that you’ll sometimes feel like this isn’t real, and it’s not happening, but it is. This is what true love feels like. My girlfriend often asks me if all of this is happening, because it’s so overwhelming for her at times that she doesn’t believe it’s true.
You also feel like you’re the most important person in his life and that you mean a lot to him. This level of importance can only be felt when someone truly loves you.
4. Your friends and family love him
A man who truly loves you will take huge leaps to make sure your friends and family like him and see how much he cares for you. He will be the sweetest man with your family members, he will take special care of your mom and dad, and he will make sure they never question his actions. He will also make sure your friends like him or are at least okay with him (some friends can be impossible).
My girlfriend’s mom loves me because she sees how much I do for her daughter and how I make her happy. Her siblings are a little too protective over her, so they don’t have anything to say about me, but I’ll make them love me in time. A real man will care for your family and friends just because you care about your family and friends.
5. He doesn’t suffocate you
Your Mr. Right will know the meaning of love, and it doesn’t mean that you choke one another and take over each other’s lives, it means to grow together and also give each other enough room to grow. A real man will never take your personal space and your “me time” away from you because he knows how important it is for you.
I ask my girlfriend to go out with her friends because I want her to have her own life too. Sure, the life we share is ours, but apart from that life, she also has her own social life with her friends and family, I always support her whenever she wants space. That’s what a loving man does to you.
A real man doesn’t meddle in menial things, and he’s not going to ask you for your passwords, he’s not going to go through your phone and your emails, he will always respect your privacy because we all deserve our own little space where no one can intrude or intervene.
Relationships that have an exchange of passwords and other information are very short-lived and don’t amount to much, because there is no trust in those relationships. If you have to go through their social profiles and messages to feel safe about them, it does not love.
7. He doesn’t hide anything from you
When a man truly loves you, he’ll always be very straight forward with you, and he won’t have anything to hide from you and will be honest. Liars don’t go very far with their lies, and love can indeed not be based on a lie. You mean more to him than anything else, and he will make sure nothing can come between the two of you, so his entire life will be transparent in front of you, and no questions will be raised in your mind even if someone tries to manipulate you against him.
8. He enhances your strengths
A man who truly loves you will always improve your powers and tell you how amazing you are in life. He will be a constant source of motivation for you, and he will always be very uplifting with his words when he talks to you. He will still live you up whenever you’re feeling low about yourself or your goals in life, and he will always support you in whichever goal you want to reach in life.
9. You will marry him time and again
When someone truly loves you, he makes you completely fall for him with his words and with his actions. There will be fights, there will be downs, but there will also be a lot of ups and a lot of happy memories, you’d remarry that guy in a heartbeat regardless of the flaws because no one is perfect, he’s your Mr. Right.