As a woman, you would never want to be put in the position of wondering whether your guy is ever going to reach out to you again or not. It’s a very emotionally stressful situation that is filled with a lot of anxiety, uncertainty, and doubt. You’re not going to want to be in a relationship with a guy you’re not even sure you’re in a real relationship with. Sometimes, when a man changes his mind about a woman in a relationship, he’s going to go MIA on her. And if you’re not careful, you might find yourself in that unfortunate situation; of having to figure out why he’s no longer engaging with you.
There are many reasons as to why a guy might just suddenly stop making the effort with you. Maybe he’s dealing with some issues at home that require his attention. Perhaps he’s feeling a little swamped at work and that’s why he hasn’t really been reaching out to you anymore. Or maybe… he’s just plainly lost interest in you. And that’s the worst possibility of all.
And when you’re stuck trying to figure out why he isn’t trying to connect with you anymore, it can be really stressful on your part. What can you do to get him to like you? What can you do to make sure that he isn’t going to just flake out and lose interest in you? Well, there is no surefire recipe that you can follow to get a man to fall in love with you. But there are certain things that you can do to put yourself in the best position to really get a man crazy over you.
In this day and age, you have to understand that texting is just as important as ever. And you really need to be able utilize this platform well if you’re going to woo your man. You need to know the right things to text him to make sure that he doesn’t think you’re a complete weirdo; to make sure that he sees you as a girl he can just eventually allow himself to fall in love with. And don’t underestimate texting as a platform for you to get closer to your guy. Technology can be very effective if it’s used properly.
1. “I am appreciative of who you are.”
Tell your man that you are deeply appreciative of who he is and everything that he does for the relationship. A man is always going to want to be validated especially by a woman he’s interested in.
2. “I love how you make me laugh. You’re so funny.”
Let him know that you are really fond of his sense of humor; that you appreciate just how well he is able to make you laugh. Let him feel like you always have a good time when you’re with him; and that you have fun when he’s around.
3. “I want to cuddle with you right now.”
He’s really going to like the fact that you’re craving for his touch when you’re not together. Just because men don’t act like they’re appreciative of physical intimacy doesn’t mean that that’s the case. It still makes him feel good to know that you’d like to have his arms wrapped around you.
4. “It’s only you I want.”
Reassure him that you don’t have eyes for anyone else. Let him know that he’s the only guy you’re interested in; and that you’re deeply committed to just being in a relationship with him. Let him know that he doesn’t have to compete with anyone else for your heart.
5. “I believe that you can do it.”
Let him know that you believe in him. Give him a little ego boost. Help build his confidence. Let him know that there’s one other person in this world who really believes in his potential to go after his dreams.
6. “What do you want to have for dinner tonight?”
It’s a nice little mindful gesture that lets him know that you’re thinking of him; and that you’re always thinking of ways to make him happy.
7. “Can you give me a call when you’re free?”
This is a nice text to show that even though you want to talk with him, you’re still respectful of his time and his boundaries. It shows that you’re considering he might be busy and incapable of talking at that moment.
8. “I’m always here for you when you need it.”
It’s always nice to reassure him that you have his back whenever he needs you. He’s going to love the thought of being able to rely on you regardless of the situation.
9. “I really miss you right now.”
What is the point of texting in the first place? It’s for you to be able to communicate with someone you’re not with at that exact moment. So, it makes perfect sense for you to want to tell him that you miss him when you’re not together.
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