It’s always nice whenever you are in a relationship with someone who is in love with you. However, you have been caught in so many compromising positions in the past; positions that have led you to believe that a guy is in love with you even when he isn’t. And at those times, you’ve experienced substantial disappointment and heartbreak. You’ve gotten your hopes up, and you were let down by your own high expectations and assumptions. And you promised yourself that you would never put yourself in that position again. You said that you wouldn’t allow yourself to get invested in anyone unless you knew that it was real love. However, that can be easier said than done.
Men aren’t always going to be so communicative in relationships. And that’s why you really need to take it upon yourself to read the signs in your relationship to know if he really loves you or not. The first thing that you need to know is that men are more of physical communicators than they are verbal ones. And you have to be looking at your guy’s general conduct whenever he’s around you to figure out if his feelings for you are real or not.
And if you don’t know what you need to be looking for, then this article is the right one for you. Here are a few things that you need to be on the lookout for with your man in your relationship. If you find that he does a lot of these things, then chances are that he really is in love with you; and it’s safe for you to invest your feelings in him as well.
1. He really pays attention to what you say to him.
He really listens to you whenever you talk. He understands that communication is important in your relationship. And he also knows that part of being a good communicator is being a good listener. And he always wants to make you feel like you are safe to express yourself however you see fit. He will always listen to you.
2. He puts in the extra effort for the sake of the relationship.
He knows that it always takes a lot of hard work to make sure that a relationship lasts, and that’s why he never shies away from putting in the effort for you. It really shows in the way that he conducts himself in your relationship.
3. He takes note of all the little things.
He has great attention to detail. And he is always proving to you that he doesn’t take you or the relationship for granted. He gives importance even to the simplest aspects of your relationship.