9 Things Men Tend To Look For In Women

As a woman, you might always be wondering about what men look for when it comes to prospective mates, girlfriend, or even eventual wives. You don’t necessarily want to change who you are, but you also don’t want to be presenting yourself as an unlovable girl. You want to be able to strike that balance. You still want to hold on to your real identity. But you also want to make the most out of any opportunity to make yourself more amiable in the eyes of men.

However, you don’t know. You aren’t sure that you have to do or what specific traits you need to develop to make guys more interested in you. That’s exactly where this article is going to step in. But before we get any deeper, it’s important to stress the point that you must always stay true to who you are. No matter how pretty you might be, if a guy doesn’t see you as genuine or sincere, he isn’t going to be able to trust you.

Yes, physical beauty and attractiveness are always going to play a factor in getting a guy to become interested in you. However, keeping a guy interested is still going to be a different story. This is precisely where your personality comes in. You might need to develop certain traits and characteristics to make you more appealing to men so that you can find more success in your love life. Again, it’s important to stress that you stay true to who you are throughout the entire process. You are merely putting your best foot forward.

Here are the nine things that men tend to look for in women:

1. Kindness

Naturally, girls are always best whenever they are kind. A man is going to find it a lot easier to fall in love with you if you can espouse a sense of kindness and generosity towards him. You have to show him that you have a heart of gold and that you aren’t someone who only thinks about yourself.

2. Passion

There are very few things in this world that are more beautiful than a girl who is passionate about something. It doesn’t even matter what you’re passionate about. So as long as you showcase your passion, your face lights up, and you become so much more attractive to the people around you.

3. Ambition

Ambition is something that most men are going to look for in their women. There are weak and insecure men out there who are threatened by women who show ambition and drive to succeed. However, the best men are always attracted to women who have the courage and bravery to go after their dreams.

4. Gratitude

Gratitude is something that a man is still going to want from a woman. He is always going to want to feel validated for all of the efforts that he puts into a relationship. He is going to want to feel like his actions, and his gestures aren’t just being put to waste.

5. Sense of Humor

Of course, a man is always going to want to get himself a woman who has an excellent understanding of humor. When you get into a relationship, it can get tense and stressful sometimes. Having a healthy sense of humor will enable the two of you to alleviate that pressure to make more room for positive energy.

6. Independence

Independence is something that all women should look to develop in themselves. Even though men typically like to feel needed to a certain degree, no man is ever going to want to have to support the dead weight. Men don’t want women who are unreliable and dependent on them. You have to present yourself as a girl who knows how to fend for yourself.


7. Self-Esteem and Confidence

Self-esteem and confidence always make a person seem more attractive. It’s not that you are arrogant or overconfident. Those aren’t good looks on you. However, you want to present yourself towards other people as someone who understands self-worth. You need to be able to value yourself as an individual.

8. Intelligence

The strongest men are always going to want to be with a smart and intelligent girl. Make sure that he’s a guy who is intellectually stimulated by you so that he is never going to grow bored of being with you. He always has to be feeling like he has something to learn and pick up from you.

9. Humility

A guy is still going to love being with a girl who is humble and open-minded. You have to be someone who never acts like you are always right in everything. You have to know that you can also sometimes be wrong and that there is still going to be room for you to grow and learn as a human being.


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