Contrary to popular belief…
We are all led to believe that dating is so much easier for people who are blessed enough to actually be considered physically attractive. There is no denying the value that physical attraction can play in a relationship especially during the earlier stages of it. That’s why by looking at things at surface value, a lot of people would actually be in agreement with the notion that love is just so much easier for attractive people. And for the most part, these people are right. There is just no downplaying the significance and prominence of being physically attractive in a world that is driven by aesthetic pleasures.
However, it would be wrong for us to assume that attractive people don’t go through very distinct difficulties in their pursuits of love. We are all human after all, and we are all going to be flawed. All of us will have our problems and we all deal with our imperfections in our own very specific ways. We must always remember that just because a person has things significantly easier than we do doesn’t mean that they would be immune from difficulties already.
Challenges come to us in all shapes and forms regardless of who we are. It doesn’t matter whether you’re good looking, ugly, smart, ignorant, rich, poor, adventurous, or shy. We all have our troubles and we all have to learn how to deal with them the best way that we can with the tools that we’re given. That’s where this list comes in. This list aims to shed a light on the very distinct and specific problems that attractive people encounter in their pursuits of success in love and relationships. Here are a few ways that the dating world can be more difficult for an attractive person.
1. You are blessed with just too many options.
This might seem like a pretentious little problem to have but you shouldn’t underestimate the difficulties that come with having too many options in life. It can be incredibly overwhelming to deal with the mental torment that comes with having to consider a wide array of choices that concern something so important in your life.
2. Potential mates are aware that you are a hot commodity.
Yes, a lot of people want to be with you because of your looks. You generate a lot of romantic interest in general because of your physical attractiveness. However, the trouble with that is a lot of potential mates who you may be interested in will not want to make a move on you. They will know that you have too many people interested in you and they will not want to take part of the competition for your affections.
3. People will tend to judge you just based on your looks.
A lot of people will have trouble going beyond the surface. They will fail to recognize all the other facets of your character and your personality because your looks are hard to get past. Some people are just naturally superficial like that and you’re going to have to deal with it.
4. People will be more likely to use you just for your body.
There are plenty of instances of relationships wherein love doesn’t really play a role. We’ve all heard the stories of ladies being used by men to satisfy their sexual desires. The more good-looking you are, the likelier the chances that a person will only want you for how you look. – Continue reading on the next page
5. You are the primary target of players.
Players are all around us. There’s no escaping them. These are the people who will treat love like a game or a sport. Unfortunately for the good looking people, you will be seen as the most sought-after prizes to these games.
6. People will unfairly assume that you are loose.
It’s just a natural stigma that is attached to good looking people. You are only ever seen as a sexual creature by a lot of people and so they will automatically assume that you practically live for sex. They will assume that you use your looks to get yourself around even when that really isn’t even the case.
7. It will be harder for you to really figure out a person’s true intentions.
You will have a more difficult time trying to figure out whether a person wants to be with you because of who you are or of how you look. You can never really seem to be sure about peoples’ true motivations and it can be incredibly frustrating.
8. People will be more likely to be intimidated by you.
It doesn’t matter if you have a very kind, pleasant, and welcoming personality. A lot of people are easily intimidated by good looks. You miss out on a lot of chances for good relationships just because people are afraid to approach you.
9. Your looks can be the cause of unnecessary drama.
It’s a shame that this world is practically driven by the value of aesthetics. A person’s good looks can be the source of substantial drama and no one is immune to eat. You are just going to have to learn to deal with the curses that come with your blessings.
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