This story is about an American woman, Aly, who moved to Germany and loves it there. Sheβs a happy wife, mother, and also has a Ph.D. She made a TiKTok account, @usa.mom.in.germany, where she posts regular updates about the massive differences in living between the two countries. Recently, Aly came across a news article that described a wisconsin familyβs tragic pitbull incident, which sparked a discussion among her followers about the cultural attitudes towards pet ownership in Germany versus the United States. Many of her viewers were shocked by the details and shared their own experiences with pets in different countries. This prompted Aly to create a video addressing the importance of responsible pet ownership and the differences in regulations surrounding pets abroad.
Alyβs Reasons Why Sheβs Never Moving Back
In a video that has gained more than 1.8 million views on TikTok, Aly shared twelve of her most important reasons why she, as a mother and a wife, would never want to move back to the USA. Itβs a βstitchβ video β where TikTokers ask each other questions and answers. TikToker @v.brittney.posted a video asking her question:
βIf youβre an American living abroad, please tell me why you would never go back.β
Aly, responding to her question, said:
βBecause I donβt have to worry about affording my health insurance.β
βBecause my kids can go outside and play without me having to worry because the crime rates are so much lower.β
βPublic transportation.β
β30+ vacation days per year.β
βSo much paid paternal leave.β
βBecause my son is now bilingual, and working on becoming trilingual.β
βBecause Iβll save $100,000 in my sonβs paid university tuition.β
βBecause I no longer have to worry about my own student loans.β
βBecause I can actually afford daycare.β
βBecause my taxes actually go towards helping other families.β

Aly goes on to list down more reasons why she would never want to go back unless things changed. Her audience loved her responses and praised her for making the move.
Caroline G said:
βSo my ancestors left Europe for a better life and now Iβm trying to go back for the same reason. Got it. Doh.β
Rusti Craven said:
βYou had me at being able to drink water from the tapβ¦β
user5395298127302 wrote:
βAmazing, love this. Weβre considering a transfer abroad w my husbands work. π₯° Excited just donβt even know where to start πβ
You can follow Aly and her life in Germany on TikTok here.
What are your thoughts on Alyβs reasons for moving and never wanting to go back? Share your thoughts in the comments below!
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Images & Featured Image via @usa.mom.in.germany on TikTok
