An Open Letter to the Man Who Opened My Heart And Made Me Believe in Love Again

I just wanted to take the time to let you know that you changed my life for the better. Also, I want to let you know that I am going to be eternally grateful to you. Although, I have to be honest and say that I don’t really know if you understand just how much of a big deal you are to me. Truthfully, you’re just on another level. Actually, you’re nothing like I have ever seen in my life. You’re incomparable. It would be unfair to compare you to anyone else. Frankly, no one can hold a candle to what you mean to me. You’re that amazing.

Factually speaking, you might not really be aware of the kind of stranglehold that you have on my heart. For the longest time, love has always meant pain and struggle for me. It has always been giving me a lot of disappointment and despair. In fact, love has always been associated with negative energy for me. But with you, everything just turned upside down. I’ve completely changed my perspective on relationships and love. And it’s all because of you.

The Game Changer

For the longest time, people always tried to convince me that love was the grandest thing that anyone could ever experience in this life. However, I could never bring myself to believe it. After all, it just wasn’t my story. It never happened to me. In my case, it was just completely different from what everyone else was saying. Where other people saw happiness, I only saw disappointment. Where other people saw fulfillment, I only saw despair. Love had never treated me kindly. Consequentially, I just wanted to abandon it. I just wanted to completely give up on it. However, with one single swoop, you managed to change my whole perspective on things. You were the gamechanger that I needed.

My disbelief in love came as a result of my lack of success. However, you were able to give me the taste of love that I had been longing for since time immemorial. Truthfully, I had never believed in the idea of fate, destiny, soulmates, and all that jazz. I was the biggest skeptic I knew. I had sworn that everyone else was just being deluded with their own feelings. But as time went by, I ended up eating my own words. With you, I discovered that I was just being bitter and impatient. With you, I learned that all I had to do was wait a little longer.

Love is for Everyone

It took me a while to realize that love is something that is reserved for everyone. All of us are deserving of love in this life. However, not all of us are willing to wait long enough to see love come in its purest form. And that’s what was happening with me. I was so eager to get a taste of love myself that I ended up putting myself in bad positions to do so. In the end, it all backfired on me. However, it wasn’t all that bad. It was because of all that bad luck that eventually led to me meeting you. And I know for sure that you’re the one I’m destined to spend the rest of my life with.

If only I could go back and reassure myself that eventually, you would walk into my life and make everything alright. I just want to back in time and tell my old self that love does exist and that I just have to keep the faith. However, I can’t do that. But it’s all moot at this point. It doesn’t matter. I have you and that’s the one thing that I’m most thankful for in this life. It’s because of you that I’ve opened my heart to love again even when I had all the reasons in the world not to. In spite of all the hardships that I have had to face, you managed to make me go against my better judgment and trust you. For that effort, I am eternally grateful.

Keep the Faith

I was on the brink of giving up on love and romance. I wanted nothing to do with it at that point. However, you brought me back. You made me believe in it again. And now, I don’t want to know any other reality than the one that I’m currently in; the one that has you in it. Thus far, you have been the greatest gift that the universe has placed on my lap. And I’m going to do whatever it takes to keep you there. You are the light that has brought lots of joy to my days. It was you who taught me to love even when I was giving up on romance. You made me believe again.

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Relationship Rules is my ideology of love. It's a concept of emotion and oneness. Check out my book - "50 Rules of a Relationship" here.

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