You deserve better.
Let’s get one thing straight: being single doesn’t mean that you’re a terrible person. Being single doesn’t mean that life is going to be intimidating, terrifying, and extremely difficult. Being single doesn’t mean that you’re going to be feeling lonely all the time. You can’t allow yourself to believe the stigma that people have unfairly placed on single people. You know your life better than anyone else. You shouldn’t feel pressured to be in a relationship just because you’re afraid of being single. You should definitely stay single until you’re ready until you meet the right person who actually makes you feel like you’re ready.
You have to realize by now that it’s much better to be single than to just keep on going out on dates that make you question your worth. Maybe you just aren’t cut out for the dating scene or maybe you just aren’t ready yet and that’s okay. You can’t keep on trying to force the issue when it comes to dating. You shouldn’t have to keep trying it out with guys when you know that you yourself aren’t ready. Remember that it is very important that you use your time as a single person wisely. You have to be using this time to build yourself up into a strong and independent individual.
A lot of people unwittingly get so depressed and sad about being single even though it’s downright illogical to be so. If you are one of those people, then you have to realize that your being single doesn’t always have to be so bad. There are plenty of people in relationships who have it just as bad as people who are single. It’s all a matter of mindset and willpower. If you choose to have a good life regardless of whether you’re single or not, then you are going to have a good life. You just have to have the right philosophy when it comes to these things.
You should choose to remain single until you actually meet the person who isn’t ashamed to show you off to the world the guy who isn’t going to want to hide you from anyone. You should stay single until you find the man who actually keeps his promises the man who would never leave you hanging around or waiting. If he tells you that he’s going to be there for you, then he is always going to be there for you. You should stay single until you find that person who no longer makes all the excuses in the world the one who always breaks his promises to you. You know that you deserve better. You know that you definitely deserve more. You should remain single until you actually meet the guy who wants to spend every waking moment with you the man who takes an interest in all the things that you’re passionate about just because he knows it would make you happy.
Be single until you actually meet a man who brags about you to his friends and family. He is a man who understands your worth and who would never treat you less than you deserve to be treated. Stay single until you finally meet the guy who is going to treat you like the queen that you are. This is a man who is never going to belittle your dreams or demean your character. He is going to put you up on a pedestal where you belong. He is always going to be pushing you towards your goals and he would never be one who holds you back from achieving greatness.
You should choose to stay single until you meet an independent man who also values your independence in life. He isn’t someone who would see you as some sort of object that he could own or possess. He knows and understands your need for space and freedom. He knows that you are bound for great things and he doesn’t want to serve as a roadblock in your life. He doesn’t want to control you; instead, he wants to nourish and cultivate your relationship the best way that he can.
You should choose to stay single until you meet the man that you’re really sure of. He shouldn’t be the kind of guy who you have to try really hard to convince yourself that you like. Being with him shouldn’t have to be so difficult. You have to stay single until you meet the man who is actually worth your time and your attention. You have to stay single until you meet the man who is actually worthy of being in your life.
So until you meet that man, it’s better for you to just remain single. Remember that it is so much better to be patiently living a happy, fulfilling, and enriching life as a single person than it is to be stuck in a toxic relationship with someone you’re not meant to be with.