It is not easy to trust anyone these days and when a guy says those 3 words to a girl, I love you, it makes it even harder for the girl to trust or believe that guy. When she comes back from that fairytale she went into after hearing those 3 words, the first thing that hits her head is, whether he really meant what he said? Does he REALLY love me?
Saying I love you can mean a couple of things, the guy may really likes the girl and mean it, he was maybe forced into saying it, he wants her to fall for him and the primary reason for that could be that he is just trying to get in her pants. There is a bigger possibility for the latter one happening these days, but not every guy is the same.
So how to figure this all out and corroborate a guy’s claim that he really means it. It is basically all about his intentions, one has to look for the clues and signs he gives when he says those words. This article is that very elucidation you’re looking for to get out of this dilemma.
The first thing we need to clear is the reason behind the guy’s words. There can be two or more reasons for that but the 3 most possible scenarios are:
- Sex! He wants to get in bed with you and the one thing guys know very well about the opposite sex is that they can be emotionally trapped and guys will certainly take advantage of you when they know theВ whole act couldВ end is sex. For guys sex is just sex, but for the opposite gender its more than that, it’s a mixture of love and feelings.
- The second is the circumstance that forces him into saying that. He may like the girl but is still confused about his decision and thinks it’s the only thing the girl wants to hear.
- The third one, of course, he may REALLY love you. *Continue reading to next page.*
Now, to get a better understanding if your guy really is obsessed about you and has fallen for you, there are a couple of things that can help you get the answer as was said earlier, and those are:
1: He will just say the Magical Words!
When he says he loves you without you asking him or putting him under any sort of pressure. This means he’s saying that because he really wants to show his true feelings to you.
2: Does he really mean it? You can Judge!
You know the guy inside out. You can judge whether he’s really serious and into it when he says that. He’d say it without wanting anything in return (like sex, etc.) and if the only reason behind his words is his deep rooted love for you, then his words have substance.
3: The way He says it
The way he says it, Yeah it can be a bit movie-ish and clich, but if he holds your arms, looks you straight in the eye affectionately, shows that he cares about you and says those 3 words. It is real.
4: Wait for the kiss
He says he adores you right after you kiss each other, and that followed by pulling you more closely and you can listen the pounding of his heart coming ever so closer to you and then he caresses your hair and kisses you again.
5: Holding hands
When you two are close and he tries to touch your arms, play with your fingers, hold your hands to show he cares about you, he doesn’t want you to be away from him and keeps on saying I love you, it can’t get any real than that.В *Continue reading to next page.*
6: The surprise hugs and cuddles
When he just can’t stay without touching you or giving you those tight comfy hugs, kisses on your neck and can’t stop telling you how much he really loves you.
7: He’s possessive about you
When a guy feels insecure and tells you he loves you in front of other guys, gets all jealous or even angry and tells you that he loves you and he doesn’t want to share you with anyone, then he’s a keeper.
8: Guys don’t show their emotional or weaker sides to their woman
They only want to have a physical relationship with you without any sort of intimacy. They will open up to you and seem weak in front of you rather than act all cool and nonchalant, if they’re the right fit for you.
9: He Tries Something Special
When he tries to show his love by doing something special for you, he’ll do that by getting you a gift, planning special occasions, celebrating with you and stuff like that where he wants to make you happy and expose his true intentions at the same time.
10: He plans the future with you
When he is really serious about you and talks about having you with him in his future, like doing stuff together, going to places together, growing old together, stuff like that and then he says I love you amidst all that, he’s the one.
The last thing you need to remember is that, everyone is different, guys may not show all these signs, maybe not all at once, maybe they need some time, but that does not mean they don’t love you, this is where you come in.
At the end of the day, If you feel cared, loved, if your instincts tell you he’s the right one when he’s around you and if you really feel like he’s not lying when he tells you all that, there’s a good chance he really does love you.