A British man who lets his wife sleep with other guys while he is away for work says he is happy with the arrangement and this is not cheating as he is ‘involved.’
Matt, 36, has been dating Zoe, 31, for a few months, and he has no issue with her sleeping with other men because that makes their relationship ‘stronger and better.’
Speaking on the YouTube series Love Don’t Judge, Matt said there is more trust in his relationship with Zoe than anyone can imagine, and she always tells him about her ‘sexual flings’ and even sends him photos and videos.
“When you agreed to it, I was happy with it, because I’ve spoken to you previously – I’d been cheated on [before], so I was quite happy to find someone who wasn’t going to cheat behind my back,” he told Zoe.
“You’d send me pictures [and] videos. I ended up being involved in it [virtually] … It was like my own amateur porn.”
Matt admitted that sometimes he feels a little bit of ‘jealousy’ towards the other men his girlfriend sleeps with, but he thinks jealousy is a nice feeling and knows she will always come back to him.
“I wouldn’t say I’d never be jealous. It’s quite a nice feeling, even though it’s jealousy. Because at the end of the day, you know you’re included, and you know you’re coming home to me.”
In the video, the couple also revealed that ever since Zoe started sleeping with other men, she had been forcing Matt to do the same and have one-night stands with other women.
So, now both Matt and Zoe go to swinging clubs together where they pick partners of their choice and have brief sexual encounters with them.
According to the couple, many people don’t agree with their approach, and some even call them weird and question their loyalties to each other, but they have more trust among themselves than in any of their previous relationships.
“Many people think it’s a form of cheating but it’s not because I don’t do anything behind [Matt’s] back,” he said. “We hide nothing from each other – at all – because there’s no need. Like I say, there’s more trust in this relationship than I’ve had with all the others.”
In the comment section on YouTube, people had many different things to say to Matt and Zoe.
“Back in the days we called this pimpin, or managing, he basically is pimping his girlfriend but through the trickery of wordplay it comes off new and hip and empowering and all the woke buzz words to veil whats actually going on,” one wrote.
“When you are in a relationship as a loving couple don’t cheat on any men or women,” a second said.
“That’s not her boyfriend, that’s her pimp,” a third added.
“What’s the point of being in a relationship then,” someone asked.
“People have no dignity these days, Loyalty is the most expensive gift don’t expect it from cheap people,” another wrote.
Let us know your thoughts in the comments.
Source: Love Don’t Judge on YouTube
So what happens if she ends up pregnant by another man, is that acceptable?
Has she accidentally called her boyfriend another man’s name?
He might be laying the pipe with another female while he’s “away for work”
Ummmm🤔 interesting
If they are happy leave them be who are we to judge. I’m kore of an old soul who prefers a traditional relationship but in this day marriages just don’t last because of affairs so they just got better odds at lasting together.