There are so, so many myths surrounding stages of physical closeness and pleasure that it’s hard to keep count. These misconceptions stem from a lot of things: how different people and different cultures around the world look at intimacy and what they think about it. How social media portrays intimacy and everything related to intimacy. adult content plays a massive role in what people have come to believe about intimacy. adult content has made people think things about intimacy that would never happen in real life. But, because adult content has a social impact that reaches so far and wide across the world, it has shaped people’s opinion on intimacy to a significant degree.
People who have and been intimate, who are experienced in that manner, will tell you how silly and even stupid adult content can be and it is not just about adult content. It’s about everything around us: advertisements, movies, Facebook, Instagram, Tumblr and what not. Actually, in real life, you must have come across several instances where people rave about their intimate experiences. They make everything sound impeccable and incredible to the point where it starts to look a bit improbable? So all the myths that happen to be widely believed to be true aren’t just because of what’s going on in our tv, laptop and mobile screens. It’s also because of the people around us. Not everyone is honest about intimacy and their intimate experiences. Has anyone ever told you they’ve never EVER had lousy intimacy? Have you heard them say things like they’re always having the most significant time in bed with all kind of people? Yeah, don’t buy that. No one has NEVER had bad intimacy in their lives. Everyone goes through something or the other suing intimacy at some point that makes them learn a whole bunch of lessons on lovemaking.
Even though we may be living in the 21st century, people are still pretty misinformed about intimacy and intimate pleasure. That’s probably because no one really talks about intimacy as openly and more importantly, as honestly as they need to, to clear all the haze and the misconceptions that come with the idea of lovemaking. But talking isn’t enough when it comes to something like intimacy. it has to be experienced. Someone can tell you everything there is be said about kissing, they can break down all the facts for you and mention all the possibilities of what could go wrong and what could go right. However, as long as a person doesn’t experience it for themselves, they’ll never really know what to believe and what not to believe. Not everything works out or fails to work out the same way for everyone.
Every situation involving intimacy and intimate pleasure is different. Have you ever happen to believe in myths about intimacyual satisfaction and only came to realize its all bullsh*t the first time you actually been intimate with someone? Yep, that’s not surprising. Thanks to all the lies intimacy have been tainted with throughout the years.
With that being said, let’s go ahead and debunk all the false claims and myths people tend to believe about intimacy:
1. closeness is the only reason to engage in intimacy
No, that’s not true. Although there’s a good reason why people believe in this myth because closenesss are apparently the best part about intimacy but its still just a myth after all. It’s not just the peak moment, it’s the entire experience of making love that is worth it from begging to the end. intimate intimacy has many, many more purposes other than making you peak moment during intimacy.
2. Everyone has multiple closenesss in a row
No, that doesn’t always happen. As surprising as it may sound, intimacy won’t always give you several climaxs in one go. It’s easier for some women to have an closeness after the first one, but, other women feel their intimacys, and intimacy gets very sensitive after an peak moment, it takes a while to have another peak moment because of that.
3. Men think of intimacy all the time
The media has made us believe men are obsessed with intimacy all the time but that’s not true. Men love intimacy but so do women. Of course, men think of intimacy a lot but saying they think of intimacy all the time would be going a bit too far.
4. All women intimacy
Sorry to break it to you but as miserable as it may sound, not every woman closenesss. Some women have a tough time having an closeness, and some don’t have one at all. Not all women have intense orgasms during intimacy, and not all women love intimacy as much as others. Achieving an peak moment isn’t as easy for women as it is for men. intimacy can be painful for women, some have way more sensitive intimacys than others, and there can be complications involved. So here’s to debunking the myth that is not normal for women o not peak moment; it is entirely normal.
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