This is for you who is constantly wiping your tears from your eyes because the pain in your heart has become too much for you to bear. You have become so overwhelmed by the situation that you have found yourself in. But you really need to stop. You can’t keep on wasting your tears on someone who clearly isn’t worth it. You shouldn’t be so willing to just give so much of yourself to someone who clearly doesn’t consider you to be important.
Never allow yourself to be vulnerable to an emotional freeloader who is only looking to prey on your soul. You really need to make it a point to protect yourself and keep yourself guarded. You always need to look out for your own well-being. Yes, you want to be trusting of the people you fall in love with. But that doesn’t mean that you should be reckless as you fall in love either.
When it comes to falling in love, it’s so much more important for you to first learn how to love yourself. Self-love is one of the most overlooked aspects of dating and relationships. When you understand the importance of self-love, then you will be in a better position to actually find meaning, satisfaction, and happiness in your love life. You will understand how your partner should be treating you. And you will know terrible treatment when you see it.
You shouldn’t have any kind of tolerance for people who look to treat you badly. Life is far too short and your time is far too precious for you to be spending it on people who would only bring pain into your heart. You only want to be pursuing the people who bring happiness and positive energy into your life. You never want to be with those who are only going to sap the life out of you.
You shouldn’t be susceptible to the fake promises of the evil manipulators and abusers. You shouldn’t fall in love with the people who aren’t interested in making sure that you feel valued and appreciated. You shouldn’t be with people who can’t give you the consistency that you need to feel safe and secure in a relationship with them. You shouldn’t be with someone who you can’t count on to be there for you when things start to get difficult in life.
You should know your worth. You should learn to value yourself better. And that means that you shouldn’t be tolerant of the terrible treatment of anyone. Don’t allow yourself to be deceived by the fake promises and the comfortable lies that they might tell you. You are so much better than that. You deserve so much better than that.
You need to fall in love with someone who is never going to give up on you. You need to be with a person who is always going to make it a point to be there for you no matter how tough things may get. You need to be with someone who genuinely sees a future with you; someone who works towards that future with you so that you will never have to worry about facing the world alone.
You need to be with someone who will make the effort to accommodate you into their life; someone who is really going to try to be serious about building a life around the relationship that you’re going to have together. You need to fall in love with a person who is never going to stop fighting for you or your relationship; someone who isn’t going to give up on you no matter how hard you might make it for them.
Be with someone who makes you feel safe and secure; someone who is going to make you feel protected and cared for. Fall in love with someone who makes you feel like you’re at home whenever you’re together regardless of where you are or what you might be doing. Fall in love with someone who is going to do whatever they can to protect you from the harms and threats that may surround you in life.
Fall in love with someone who would never try to change you; someone who loves you for who you really are and makes you feel accepted in spite of all your flaws, blemishes, and imperfections. Be with someone who never pressures you to be anyone other than the person you already are.
Fall in love with someone who is always going to put in the time and effort for you; someone who understands that they aren’t entitled to your love and that they must always be working hard to keep you in their life.
At the end of the day, you need to be with someone who isn’t going to take you for granted.